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Dads talking about how to be simultaneously awesome at home and in consulting
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So I was working remote, picking up, dropping off, making dinner, doing morning routine and bed routine, other than the fact the travel part might suck, and being away, I’m thinking I might have...

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“Any fun plans for the weekend?” So tired if kid-less colleagues asking me this every Friday. The answer always is the same. It’s some kid’s birthday party. Who can relate?

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Still on the subject of getting some, do you Dads use toys with wifey? We’ve stayed toy-free but now thinking about spicing things up a bit.

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Woke up in Virginia and got my kids to school before 9am in Illinois. It’s the little wins :)

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Dads with two kids or more how often are you getting laid? 🔞🔥

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KPMG help

I’m posting this here as I know my SO won’t be here. I tossed the ice cream scooper in the dishwasher like an idiot and of course ruined it :(. Is anyone willing to sell there’s?

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This has to be the absolute worst generation to be a Dad. Expected to do 50% (I would argue 70-80-%) of all housework and child related activities, while also TRYING to build a successful career. Cont

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Came in late as Senior Analyst and a Dad. Anyone do the same? Hard to compete with your younger single counterparts who have all the time in the world to work and have a bunch of +1s?

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When you forget to turn off your alarm
On a holiday weekend and the kiddo gets up at 6am and proceeds to wake up his cousins who came into town. the joys of have 6 kids at your house for thanksgiving

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Opened a Virginia 529 for our first kid due in March. Any recommendations for funds? Would like to do the age based plan to set it and forget it, but I’m sure the fees are high.

Heading home! New baby boy that I can’t wait to see

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No travel this Monday: Yeah.
Kid wakes up at 4:30am and wife is sick so I’ve been playing with him for the pst 3 hours: sigh....

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Ended up having to keep ours up late for a fireworks display to fix them. They’re now back to waking up at a civilized time!

The so called "extra hour of sleep" is bogus when you have young kids. Sure wish they'd "fall back" asleep 🤣

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Will taking EY paternity for the full four months hurt you chances for promotion from M to SM?

How do you guys stay motivated all week? I joined consulting very late, after my kids were born. Kids are still little and a blast to be with. I have no motivation to work on Fridays or weekends when I am with th… more

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Super bummed that I'll have to travel/out of town for Halloween

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In one hand, Consulting is great for the family, you can be home at hours others can't to be part of your kid's daily life (breakfast, school pick up, bath time, etc.) in the other hand, consu… more

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My son got into his first fight in school (he’s five). My wife is somewhat angry at me that I am proud of the fact that A. he did not start the fight, and B. he won despite the other kid being way big… more

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Wife described 7month old getting excited when he heard my voice talking to him then get frustrated when he couldn't grab my face because we were face timing ...

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Wife is pregnant. We are psyched, but what are the things I should be using EY benefits for? What perks are there for moms/dads I should make sure to get her? Also, any recommendations on which health… more

How do you guys deal with fatherly responsibilities on the road?

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New dad here with a 10 week old. Wife is working extremely hard to take care of the baby and lately he's very fussy with her and but not me. He'll keep fussing, complaining and crying on her w… more

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What fun things do you like to grab while on the road for the kiddos?

My three year old just made a 'family portrait' that included Alexa. A 'robot' is officially a member of my family 🙂. Anyone else dealing with these shenanigans?

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Fell asleep during family movie night. Again. Between consulting and toddlers, when do you sleep? It's never enough.

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Thoughts on getting a vasectomy?

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Wife and I are expecting our second son. Any big things to watch out for when #2 arrives?

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Nice to see that we have a good mix of consulting firms!

Is this group infiltrated by any moms?

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I need your feedback! PAS Mgr. traveling 95% looking to move internal. What's the process like? Any insights from fellow dads?

Had to go to the ER with my toddler last night and felt so bad for her, that I was in tears. Me - 30+ year old man; was a sad sight. Happy Tuesday Dads

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Good consultant, great husband, great step dad, shitty son, great daughter. Unfortunately my step son is fucking it all up and causing daily fights/issues. Being on the road sucks, but it definitely m… more

Consultant, 25, 2m old, travel M-Th. Wasn’t planning to have kids until manager, but also couldn’t imagine having to wait another 4 years. Travel drops to M-W as Manager. Work from home when not on ro… more

I had about 6h of work to do this weekend. Guilt from traveling 4 days led me to focus on taking kids to activities and doing stuff around the house my wife asked me for. Now it's 10pm, work is on… more

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Monday mornings are always so rough got me...sneaking out of the house like a thief in the night, before anyone wakes up, not even able to say goodbye

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This bowl needs more activity! Thinking of kids..

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How are you guys managing family money? We have 401k through firm, savings account for emergencies and now thinking about opening a betterment account. Anyone used betterment?

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