Still on the subject of getting some, do you Dads use toys with wifey? We’ve stayed toy-free but now thinking about spicing things up a bit.

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My toy is enough 😂

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of course. Toys are amazing.
And BCG1: no, it's not. you don't know what you are missing

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Thinking of giving toy as present for wifey dear. Have 2 kids - so looking for spicing things up a bit. Love her to bits but the hormones have obviously played their part. Any thoughts or suggestions regarding toys? Never ventured here before 😝

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The wedge (mentioned above) is pretty great and seems like a fairly low key way to get started with toys to see if you like it.

There are also apps that help couples keep things spicy. There’s even a tinder-like one where you and your partner swipe on different ideas to spice up the bedroom. Neither knows what the other said “yes” to unless you both say “yes.” Something like that could give you a better sense for what to get her in the future

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Yes to toys! Don’t listen to BCG1. It’s not about you being enough or not enough. It’s about having fun and spicing things up. We’ve got cuffs, ties, blindfolds, a paddle, and a Magic Wand (they have lots of attachments for him and her).

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I want to get one of those Wedges, but don’t have anything else

Nature is cruel

I want to buy her a dildo, but what's the etiquette on sizing? I'm not about to compete with a toy..

10 inches long and thicker than a tree.

If you don’t want to compete with yourself then get something smaller than you are

Nip clips. So much fun to be had there...for both of you

Sometimes I play Xbox and let her go down on me.

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