Heartbreak Help

I’ve loved the uplifting posts recently, so hate to break the pattern, but… I recently passed 3 months post breakup, and I still feel like a marathon to get through each day. Everything in my life jus… more

I filed for divorce last Friday and I feel AMAZING! I’m almost free from my lying, cheating ex. The six month separation period flew by and I feel like a new person who is happier and more confident t… more

A friend shared a TikTok with me "Stop wasting your time on someone who isn't ready to be loved by someone good." And I really wish I had seen that video a year ago lol. Hope his helps s… more

Here to say that 10 months since I left a very hurtful and deeply exhausting relationship, I am feeling so much better. I am such a good place! Chin up! It gets better. Create the life you want and gi… more

The only social media app that I'm connected to my ex on is LinkedIn. LI says it's her work anniversary today, so it showed up in my feed.

Triggered memories of our time together. I miss her :(

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My ex was more of a giver and molded himself to fit our relationship. It’s been a couple months since we ended things, and I have this ego-driven fear that he only feels relief and self-empowerment po… more

I’m in an emotionally abusive relationship and I need out, I know. I’m saving money. But I could really use some encouragement from strangers since I’m too embarrassed to call my friends. This is the … more

The time has come to file for divorce (separation period is almost over). My ex texted me today asking to talk and fill out the paperwork. I know it needs to be done but I feel so nauseous thinking ab… more

I was absolutely destroyed and blindsided with a breakup on New Year’s Day this year. Truly have never felt so discarded and alone.

I spent the first three months doing nothing but grieve and went sober. Hardest months by fa… more

What activities have you found helpful to do to get used to the new normal post break up?My almost 5 year relationship came to an end last night. I saw it coming but I tried so hard to be patient and … more

For the first time I went on a date post breakup and I had fun. I kinda see a light at the end of the tunnel.

Help, I’m delusional. Every few days, I convince myself my SO ended things, so we could take time apart to grow separately and come back together stronger. As though all of this is part of some grand … more

My ex called an autistic girl with a history of bullying ugly online & that’s the closure I needed to see he wasn’t who I built him up to be in my mind and I made way too many excuses for his abus… more

It’s so scary to think that i have to start from scratch with a new person. they know nothing about my past but i wish they did. I was with my ex for many formative years of my life. through things that shaped me to be who I… more

At what age does getting drunk and staying out till 2am a red flag?

Knowing you’re in a toxic relationship and have to leave is hard to accept and even harder to actually leave. Knowing you need to go back to your moms to get back on your feet is also a hard pill to s… more

I’ve relived the same day over and over in my head thousands of times.

I’ve asked myself why I let her get on that train and didn’t stop her.

I see her life now and think to myself “it didn’t need to be this way… more

We outgrew each other. But it’s nice to think just for a moment that we could grow back into each other in the future.

I’m having a real hard time today for whatever reason. It’s been a hitting a lot more here recently for whatever reason. I find myself sad and just wanting to cry, but don’t really know if I should se… more

Wow, Analyst is really going through it. We feel you though ❤️

I miss curling into a ball and putting my head against your chest and believing that all my troubles were gone. Now I know they weren’t actually gone but i miss being able to believe that they were

I miss college so much. And my friends. we go from living a minute from each other to living across the country and seeing each other 1-2 time a year

silly thing to post in this bowl ik. but i feel the same as i … more

i want an apology. i know i’ll probably never get one because they’re not aware enough and don’t expect to ever really talk to them again

idk how to get past this. i’ve been able to work thru some of the anger th… more

I have been thinking about asking my new crush out. This is a real good sign. Life moves on

Selling my engagement ring is giving me a panic attack.

It’s been one of those days where it felt easier to envision we might get back together in the not too distant future. Not healthy, I know, but every few days, it feels good to scratch the itch.

Day 1 of no contact. Lord help me.

Learned last night that on my birthday he sent the other woman flowers and coffee. While I got nothing. That was my last straw. Again. I asked for my belated birthda… more

I need your perspective. My boyfriend and I have 1 roommate in a 3 bedroom house. We also have my BFs cousin (26) and his friend (32) living with us rent free because they can’t keep a job and are hom… more

Does your husband also fight with you when you are on your period, he acts like he is getting frustrated because you are not in a happy place.

Me & my bf took 3 months before seeing each other. We are in an LDR for 4yrs (EC/WC). During that time, I’ve felt myself getting disconnected & disheartened bc currently there’s no plan of end… more

accidentally saw a photo of the ex and it’s brought up some weird emotions. thought i was over it to the point where i’ve been hanging w someone new that i’m genuienly interested in and not as a rebound. but now … more

Any advice with coping with heartbreak even though it’s only been a couple dates (4-5) and not exclusive? Spaced out over two months, deep talks on culture, values, upbringing but we have different li… more

I didn’t have a backbone and lost all hope in settling down. I am having trouble forgiving myself for everything I let slide.

My best friend of 12 years and I dated for 6 of those years…they blindsided me with the break-up (loss of feelings). It’s been 7 months and although I’ve reached out a few times, they just walked away… more

The good memories haunt me and I want to feel like that again. I wanna share my accomplishments and how proud i am of myself with them. Everyone says become the best version of yourself and i’ve made so much prog… more

I found out my spouse cheated, multiple times, it's been 18 months and I can't fix the bitterness in my heart. If anything it's growing

I don't want to break up my family, but I feel so binar… more

I feel so much remorse for not putting enough effort into the relationship while we were still together. I took him completely for granted. How do I start to forgive myself? I had hurt him so much, an… more

I understand why it ended, and I believe it was the right thing to do. But, I’ve not yet grieved the loss of what we could have been. I know right person + wrong time = wrong person, but I’m afraid I … more

everyday i am a step closer to understanding why it had to end the way it did. or atleast i hope i am