I’m in an emotionally abusive relationship and I need out, I know. I’m saving money. But I could really use some encouragement from strangers since I’m too embarrassed to call my friends. This is the lowest I have ever felt and I’m terrified of the future. Someone tell me this gets easier.

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You can do this, I pray for your peace and solitude soon. Stay focused and on the course, you will prevail hopefully sooner than you expect! Ain’t no shame in it, I promise!

Was in something similar. It took me a while, but once you find that one friend to confide in, everything gets a bit easier. It may be difficult because often in these situations an abusive partner will isolate the victim from friends and family, but the way forward is through those who love and care about you.

i believe in you and pushing thru the pain of this will be so beneficial for ur future. u will thank urself a few years from now

I think the first step is realization which you’ve done. That’s huge. Now you can take the steps to get out. It will get easier. In fact, once time has passed, you won’t miss this abuser at all. Can you call one friend and try to tell them? It’s hard, I know, many times they have everyone fooled about who they really are.

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