Women in Law

has anyone else experienced the anxiety of potentially leaving a job and knowing they will be upset when you put in your notice?

I'm about to go back to work following maternity leave. Please can you share with me your top tips/ hacks for keeping on top of everything and staying organised?

Thanks so much in advance!

Have you ever been penalized ( other than not getting a bonus) for not meeting your hours?

Married fish-did any of you ask your husband out first?

I need new heels to wear to court. Are shiny black patent leather heels on, or is it safer to stick to non-shiny heels? Particularly for a jury trial.

Any advice for applying to a job you previously rejected? I was offered an in house position like 2 years ago, but I declined. They’ve just posted the same position and I feel like I’m in a better spo… more

I’m a mid-level associate who was told I need to improve communication — mainly giving more frequent updates and being clearer about my availability and deadlines.

What are the most effective ways you’… more

How much does your spouse/partner help? Bonus points if you have kids

Can I just get some encouragement? I had a rough year where I had to take a lot of interruption in my days to go to vet appointments etc. I did a 7 day workshop my firm wanted me to do and I was so s… more

Anyone have a rec for a HIPAA attorney / someone who is familiar with corresponding CA law? This is for someone whose HIPAA / CA rights were potentially violated. Thanks!

I’m getting married next week. Who here had their work phone with them in their bridal purse and during the wedding events? 🤣🥲 is it safe to say I can put it away? 🙄

How do you deal with a partner trying to cut you out from a client relationship that you sourced? I reached out to them to join the call because of certain expertise that could be helpful and now they… more

How long does it take to get back into the swing of things after mat leave? I’ve been back one month and feel like I’ve forgotten so much

Anyone here (or anyone you know) move to a smaller city for your spouse’s work and had to give up Biglaw? About to do that and I’m feeling extremely conflicted. And yes my spouse makes more than me so… more

I see a lot of posts about divorce, but few (or none) discuss regretting it. Wondering for myself: for those who regret getting divorced, why?

Anyone else find it hard to be emotionally available when dating? I feel like I’m struggling to be vulnerable in the getting to know you phase.

For those of you who switched to in house, so you feel you are able to be more present for your kids?

What’s the average time to take for maternity leave as an attorney? And, how early are you telling your superiors/administration?

For women who went out on maternity leave, when did you start transitioning your work? I have a colleague pressuring me to hand stuff off when my leave doesn’t start for two more months, which feels a… more

Does anyone own Good American suiting? Wondering if it looks professional in person. I can’t tell from the photos if it’s regular fabric or shiny/stretchy. (Can you tell with these descriptions I’m no… more

How often (if ever) do you get your white gold “every day” jewelry re-plated with rhodium? I am thinking about getting a diamond tennis bracelet but debating between white gold and rose gold.

I came back to my firm 6 weeks ago after a 8-mo. maternity leave and could sense my firm thought I wouldn’t return even before I went on leave. Prior to leave, I had set a lot of boundaries throughout… more

Hi all, I am a third year/rising fourth year in big law in a specialist regulatory compliance group. I know big law isn’t for me, so I’m hoping to pivot next year (job market permitting). However, I a… more

Recently lateraled in as a mid/senior associate, but I really have about two years in my practice area and a year of general corporate before that. Deal flow has been slow, but when things pick up, I defini… more

What are your favorite things you keep in your office? I’m looking for little luxuries that make time spent in your office more enjoyable!

Has anyone else felt like their attention to detail became less sharp in the late stages of pregnancy? First pregnancy and feeling like I’m losing it…

Has anyone here had luck using a career coach? I’m really unhappy with my work life and need a change but I’m not sure what type of change.

Moms in Big Law with multiple kids: how do you do it? I have two young ones and I feel big law is crushing on my values and goals as mom. I know many successful moms attorneys so I know it’s possible … more

How the heck are we caring for infants (under 1) and working full-time? I have daycare but ugh, we are getting up frequently throughout the night and I am just so exhausted. I know this is a season bu… more

Starting at a new firm later this week! Super nervous. Any words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated 😊

Have any new/junior partners run into issues and clashed with senior partners because you are getting business from clients (and getting origination credit) that used to go to the senior partner?How d… more

I recently changed jobs to another job in the same niche area of law. My goal was to figure out if my frustrations were with my old firm or the type of law. I’ve been at my new firm for about 6 weeks.… more

Are low income housing tax credits (4% and 9%) issued in a similar way as other tax credits (NMTC, historic, brownfield, etc.) and is the process to secure other types of tax credit similar to the hou… more

Away for the weekend and Legally Blonde was on the Roku. I forgot how much I loved that movie. A feel good one for sure.

Looking to leave my current firm. Does anyone know any reverse recruiters that can assist me with finding a new job? Thank you in advance.

Ladies..need some guidance.

Interviewing for a presitous AUSA’s office Tuesday. I’ve interviewed for this office before about three years ago was gutted when it didn’t work out. A lot happened in tho… more

Would appreciate any advice on giving notice. I’ve been with my small firm (5 attnys) for 4 years and am the most senior attny. The partners have always treated me like family and I truly value those … more

Has anyone had any luck securing a role via LinkedIn? I am in Florida and I am not having any luck!