A question for the entertainers out there (magicians, dancers, DJs, really just anyone who is hired to work at parties). Have you ever turned down a job because something about the person asking to hire you just felt "off"?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

When I was new to the industry, I took any job I could get my hands on, and as a result, put myself in some very uncomfortable and sometimes even dangerous situations. Now, I listen to my gut, even if it means turning down a good paying job. My safety is more important than a paycheck any day.

like

Of course! numerous times. one time, it was this shady old man who wanted us to dance at his mansion for some perverted reason since the other dancers hired were all girls. i just trusted my gut

like

Absolutely! I've worked enough parties to know that if something feels off, usually it is. They argue with you about the payment, they're rude to your group, or like dancer instructor said, they're just plain creepy. I say always trust your intuition...it'll save you a lot of hassle in the long run.

The more experience I had in the field, the more jobs I turned down because my instinct told me it wasn't a good idea. Always talk to whoever wants to hire you; if something doesn't feel right, turn it down without fear. You can get out of situations so bad that you don't even want to know what they are.

I'm a male dancer and I train a lot. I like to look good. I cannot count how many times I've been invited to do erotic dances, even though I only do break dance.

I didn't think I would find a question here so specific to my profession, but here goes: one time a lady wanted to hire me for her "divorce party", and she wanted me to magically make vibrators, lubricants and all kinds of sex stuff appear. My daughter is my assistant, so I couldn't afford that kind of event. Although I surely would have done it had I been single.

Absolutely. Trust your gut with these things. There are plenty of clients out there who won't make you feel creeped out or weird about working with them

Always trust your gut. That is my number one rule.

I've been working as a dancer for a few years, and I've come to learn that sometimes you just have to pass up on certain people who reach out to you

I have turned down several clients because the vibes were off.I have a rule which is to always trust my gut. If the vibe is off I wouldn't take the job.

Many times already. It doesn't just felt off but it also felt creepy. Have to turn it down the instant I sense it.

Yup!! One time I got invited by a creepy dude to sing at his mom's 60th birthday party. I had to make up an excuse just to decline. Lol

Your gut is your best friend. Always trust your intuition in these situations. The second you get weird vibrations from a gig, back away from it. You don't need to justify it. Just make up an excuse and leave.

Many, many times! Which can hurt when I need the cash, but my mental health is way more important.

Related Posts

Is corporate development an interesting option?

like

I've been approached about being an expert consultant. Has anyone done this before? I'm interested to hear people's experience.

like

Thoughts on CPOAX?

like

Anyone know of the EA salary range and culture at Chime?

likehelpful

Looking for a “rustic” style brown suit for my brother’s wedding (for him) preferably not wool and preferably under $500. Any suggestions? Wedding is late June.

like

Did you do the NIPT? I just had my first prenatal appt and they scheduled me for the NIPT at 10 weeks. I’m a little nervous and anxious. Did anyone get it and got a false positive? Do you not recommend it? I wish I could ask family but we’re not telling anyone until the 12 weeks mark.

How are we feeling right now? 😫

like

What will be salary range for 4.6 to 5 yrs of experience for sap functional consultant can expect (laterally entry)

If possible please mention range who was got recently

like

I joined TCS 2 days back. Today I got the better offer from Deloitte. What should I do? Should I resign from TCS and joined Deloitte or stay with the TCS.
Please suggest.
YOE:6yrs
Stack: Cloud

like

How to get release from a project? Hating the work environment and pressure here.

like

After how many days the Date of exit gets updated in the UAN portal after the LWD in TCS.
I have received my final payment after 10 days of my last working day.
Because after Date of exit is updated only we can start the PF transfer process right?

like

Hello All - I struggle with time management. I take medication but I have no idea whether a task will take 40 mins or 4 hours. Because of this, I over commit and under deliver. Also, having been on the receiving end of criticism, over time I have developed a perfectionist streak. I won't turn it in if it is good enough. How do you break out of this habit?

Any resources to help the brain structure tasks and make better estimates? Much appreciated, thanks!

like

What if Elon Musk replaces Rajesh Gopinathan as the CEO of TCS?
All the useless managers will be fired?

funny
like

Anyone have an objection to me pretty much running my timer nonstop on the day a deal closes as a junior associate? It seems fair to me

like

Am I able to access MyLearning before starting with Accenture? I received a Countdown to Accenture email and it included a piece about starting trainings before your first day, but both the link to MyLearning and the link to support for the link not working were unaccessible.

like

Sooo

Recently started a new job and got completely fleeced by internal politics and am not gelling with leadership.

I had another offer from a cool firm - what’s the best way to ask if they would consider me again?

like

Anyone have any advice on who to contact for merch/apparel related gigs? Preferably in the music or sports industry. Recommendations for agencies that focus on this are also greatly appreciated!

like
like

Additional Posts in Entertainment

I had been working on a huge film for the past two years. I did the script, produced and directed. The company backing me is now defunct and so is my project alongside them. I'm so heartbroken, can anyone share any encouragement?

like
like

What’s that one song you can’t get out of your head right now?

like

Is Unity or Unreal better for beginner game devs?

like

How come in TV shows there are different salaries for different actors? And it's even worse when you bring numbers in. Per episode, there have been cases where some people make twice as much as others.

like

Who is your favorite photographer?

like

Why do we call reality TV reality, if it really isn't reality?

like

Norwegian festivals, who has experience with the industry?

like

How is everyone feeling amidst these layoffs? Hope everyone is taking care of themselves!

like

Who’s your favorite movie director? Mine’s Wes Anderson!

like

How do filmmakers find investors?

like

Is there such a thing as work/life balance as a PA?

like

Have you ever went for a job and new u we’re getting the job but then see the person they picked isn’t even better than you?

like

What is the moment that made you realize you wanted a career in entertainment?

like

Does anyone have any experience working with FeverUp? I have a interview with them this week and I would love to hear about life within the company.

likesmart

Let's talk about Stranger Things S5 predictions!!! I think one of the main characters will get killed off. My bet is on Eleven but that may be too obvious. Wbu?

like

How do you find an agent as an actor and how do you know that they’re reliable/not going to screw you over?

like

Anyone in here with a masters degree on the business side of entertainment? What type of salary do you usually negotiate for as a coordinator or manager or director?

like

Is it worth it to go into acting for the pay only? I've received a couple opportunities with decent pay, and while this is not the path I want for my life, it's all I have at the moment.

like

I’m passionate about gaming and I’d love to join the industry, but I’m wary because of some horror stories I’ve heard about working with big developers. Has anyone here worked with a Triple-A studio?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal