All the original desi guys here, when did you realize arranged marriage is the only option for you? I have been trying all the dating apps for ~2 years and swiping right on almost every girl but so far no success 🥲 I'm in my late 20s. On one hand I'm a bit scared of arranged marriage (from not having anything to suddenly having a wife) but on the other hand, I'm also afraid of (as they say) aging out for arranged marriage. Would greatly appreciate it if you can share your experience. TIA 🙏🏻

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Late 20s is not late

Also arranged marriage is no longer as in earlier days - people are not forced on you, you will not get a wife suddenly 😂

You get introduced to people through your parents or marriage portals. You still get the chance to know the person (albiet within boundaries) and take an informed decision.

In a way the process is not very different from a dating app, it is just the counter party is clear that they are looking for a life partner and not some casual fun

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Uhhhhh why does the partner come from India? Why not just someone here with same cultural background

What does ageing out of arranged marraige mean

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They generally say once you are over 30, your chances of getting good matches start decreasing because most of the girls in that age range are already married. (This may seem ridiculous here in the US. But I'm talking about trying to find a match through arranged marriage from India!)

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