Anyone else notice that bullying and retaliation seem to be kind of common in consulting? Be honest!

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Not common. But when you experience it, especially from a superior, it sucks so badly

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Its not common with everyone but yes there are major bullies out there and they can be awful. It’s not the majority but does exist

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No

Not at all

I’ve seen a small handful of clients be more adept at bullying

Bullying yes. Retaliation not so much

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