Anyone else spending Thanksgiving weekend alone?

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Ex husband 😝 He burned his own bridges

Not this year but have spent many holidays alone. Last year on thanksgiving I went for a long walk and then experimented with a new style of painting. It was tough but I am/was proud for doing things that were nourishing for the soul x

Physically no, mentally yes

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Me, and I love it!

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