Anyone use donor eggs? Would love to understand your experience in getting to the point of grieving genetic or ancestral loss/ getting to acceptance

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Not the same but my close friend adopted an embryo. She met the bio parents. Kid looks JUST like my friend’s husband. Going through the process was so close to having her own that they feel very much they are bio parents. She also found out her son has a brother in the area and they’ve met and are growing up like best friends. Sending hugs, best luck whatever path you choose.

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My child is donor-conceived (donor sperm), and I'm his bio-mom and in a support group for parents of donor-conceived kids. Some of us are bio parents and some aren't; we all work through our various emotions together as they arise. (For example, IMO affected me more than my husband when his sister had a baby and the family resemblance was blatant. A woman in my group used donor eggs for her 3-year-old twins and is continuously grieving her ancestral loss.) Highly recommend finding a similar group!

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