Best way to DM a girl?👀

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By not doing that

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Let’s be real, he’d never been to that place before

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Best way is to keep it casual. Respond to a story, create conversation. If she finds your response or profile interesting she will engage. No direct compliments in the first few weeks of mingling.

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U deadass rn?💀

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“Snapchat?”

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Those where the days 😌

DM a different girl. Screenshot it. Post it on your a private story, which only she has access to, showing how smooth you can be. She’ll be so impressed that SHE will DM you.

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This is how I got my wife to fall in love with me.

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With you bank account balance

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Men just want to be the little spoon sometimes, and we'll do whatever it takes to get there 😔😔

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You got this killer… just

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I usually say “hi, I’m ____ :)”

Tends to work. Warm up it up with story replies so you have an established ‘he’s a real human’ thing

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“Hi, I’m extremely lonely :)” just like that right?

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don’t lol

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Just do it (don’t be creepy)

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By not taking advice from a group of consultants

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do you have an established rapport? or is she just an acquaintance?

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Just be upfront and authentic. If it's meant to be it's meant to be

Swipe up on a story. If she don’t keep the same energy then she not feelin you like that. 🤷🏽‍♂️

When I was in college. I really liked this girl but didn’t know her. I dm’d her and she never responded. Met her in person at a party 3 months later and she was all over me. My advice: meet/talk to her in person rather than dm’ing her.

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Ask about something work related and don’t be cheesy.

Send her a job offer lol

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