Calling my Jersey City heights area people for meetups/friends. Single male here.

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

My current life situation has really brought my self esteem down and this quarantine makes it even worse. How do you lift yourself up when you feel low? I feel like I really want some validation that I’m attractive from someone but have never ever felt the need for it my whole life

How do you stop obsessing over a new romance?

In my 30s and have dated a lot. I've done casual flings, had a couple serious LTRs, been deeply in love, and had a lot of meaningless, purely physical hookups in my day.

Through all of these, my attachment style has always been secure as a fully realized person. I never needed someone to make me feel whole.

This new woman is completely intoxicating. She was clear: purely casual. It makes me want what I can't have, something more serious with her.

Anyone like Sexting?? I am married man but I enjoyed that...

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

Which country is good for dating as in where can I get good girls to date outside India? If given an opportunity, which country you would like to move to?

Good places to grab a drink solo? Im a 25yo woman.

Thoughts on serial dating, via social media apps?

If you’re in a relationship (even a happy one), is flirting fine or walking a line? I think consistently flirting with the same person can be shaky, but what about strangers if you’re out?

Thoughts on convincing gf to stay? 27M dating 28F for ~1.5 years. We knew each other in HS and reconnected during the pandemic. Everything was so connected, compatible and hot, and we planned a life together. We thought we met the loves of our lives. We moved to NYC in January. Lost intimacy and connection. She’s unwilling to work on things. Such a genuinely talented and beautiful woman, but has trust issues and depression from being overworked. Thoughts on convincing vs surrendering / leaving?

Any other women up for just sitting outside enjoying the evening by Montrose harbor? I'm 35/F. Maybe it's weird, but j just feel like enjoying the evening, it's nice outside, and winter is coming 😂

How do I get out of a date?

Hi all,

There is guy living near my place and i find him really attractive. And sometimes I come across him in the gym. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How to handle this situation?
Any suggestions?

off-topic:
in office have you seen any girl wear nosepin?

There are too many men out there who think that just because I'm being polite, it's a sign that they should flirt with me while I'm at work. I thought this was 2022, why haven't we as a society gotten past this yet?

Any female in SFO/ Bay Area want to grab some drinks/bite tonight. 30 M

DC advice request. Just moved. How's the dating environment here?

I was accosted last night at the bar when some guy overheard me telling my date I worked at Apple. Lots of expletives and "go back to where you're from" rhetoric. Do people really feel this way? So far, everyone I've met has been so welcoming.

27 years M from suburbs Chicago looking to date

Probation is extended in Socgen for 3 months, does it mean they will fire or it happens to many people?

What's the typical salary band for a Sr AD in Chicago?
I heard anything over 100 was encroaching ACD territory but I find that extremely difficult to believe because I'm already near that wall...

Curious, how much student loans did you have and how long did it take you to pay them off (or will take, if I’m progress)? Trying to see if I’m moving too slowly (paying off $50K in 2 years).

Anyone in DFW want to do something?

Anybody knows average processing time for Visitor visa these days for someone with no travel history? I applied for my parents but it has been 10weeks with no decision yet.

Hello all,

Please anybody tell me reason to reject our profile in the workday app

Anyone from intelligent automation or RPA Team got their hike?

Hey fishes,
Is there any openings for Audit Associate in KPMG ?! If yes, plz help me.

Hello People,

I about to move to BLR. My Office is in brookfield. Can someone please refer me some good PG/co living option with single sharing?

I am thinking to not go any further that 3-4KM from office radius.

Any kind of help/advice will be good! Thank you😊

What kind of job do audit seniors typically leave for?

Would you say being a partner is more demanding than being an industry exec?

Any insight here on Marketing lead salaries in tobacco (in Toronto). The actual role is pretty comparable to a brand manager which can range 80-100k depending on the employer. Thanks in advance!

Recently received Star&r award. It's my first time getting it and I know that I can choose a voucher. How can I utilize it best? Need suggestions.

Hi Fishes,

Need your suggestion.
Wanted to decline an offer (which I had accepted earlier) stating location contraint, but now they have given location of my choice.Still I don't want to join.

How should I deal with company in this scenario.

My home office is NY but I live in NJ and I’m filing taxes in multiple states that I worked in this year. On my W2 federal wages are the same as NY state wages, how do I track down my New York w2 wages without access to my detailed timesheets? Can I just subtract my total wages from the state wages from my W2 of the other states I’ve worked in?

Does LTA and phone allowance are processed each month as a taxable income if we do not produce the bills ?

What are my New Yorkers doing for Halloween? 👀

Hello all, good evening team, what are you planning this week?

Hey any philly people here ? Also who play tennis ?

This is about to go from fishbowl to catfish

Anyone in DFW want to do something?

Anybody in the Tampa/St. Pete area? Let’s plan a meet up 😸

Anyone from Sacramento area/ Cali

44/M/CNJ - drinks? Lunch? Dinner? Coffee? debauchery?

Anyone want to try and go to top golf this coming Friday night or Saturday night? Thinking the Mount Laurel location but Philadelphia works too.

Any DMVers? 👀

I’m there every Sunday, and I just hosted the NYC Meetup yesterday, but I’m down to do a brunch meet sometime soon!

If we have enough DMVers in here… ya know… I’m down to clown! 🥳

⚠️Calling all my Houston, Tx people⚠️

Let’s coordinate a happy hour meet and greet I’m a 25 F, for reference.

Let’s gooo

This feels like the biggest sausage party ever

Where are you all traveling to for work?

Serendipitously meeting people on the road was one of the best parts traveling pre-Covid

Thanks for coming out Dallas 🐠! Some confessions were revealed but I’ll never tell XOXO it was an intimate crowd tonight of 2 men and 2 gals and was just perfect for the atmosphere! definitely want to see more people next time. Adios and thanks again for coming! There will be another one at some point so pls be on the lookout.
Goodnight!

Calling all my lovely people in jersey city, nj, nyc area; i have a rising star ranking in fishbowl if that helps 🤪

I'm visiting Denver on Wednesday for 36 hours if anyone wants to meet up (36M)

So… are any NJ/NYC people planning a meet up?! 👀