Thoughts on serial dating, via social media apps?

Any chance of meeting smo serious on Tinder? I know it's mostly a hookup site, but have you met any exceptions?

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

Lockdown makes it hard to date

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

Any female in SFO/ Bay Area want to grab some drinks/bite tonight. 30 M

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

Any advice 24m

Never dated before. What confrontational questions I should get out of the way?

Both looking for marriage. Get to know each other a little bit then bring up marriage with parents.

Do you feel explicitly femme / butch / futch / stud ? I feel like I’m not femme or butch and I’d be more butch personality wise in a relationship but definitely more of a futch / soft butch physically? Getting a better handle on this might make me better able to find the right folks for me, dating wise... I know some people are super strict about their “type”

Any thoughts on open relationships? Has anyone tried one? I’m curious. Kinda wanna explore that but unsure.

Attractiveness is 90% of what makes a guy initially interested in a woman, and is a huge signifier of whether he’ll commit

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.

Haven’t done the dating thing in a while so need advice! (F here) Met a guy at a party on Sat, followed each other on insta, then I dm’ed him my number saying “lmk if you want to get drinks sometime”. He then texts me and says something along the lines of “yeah let’s do it” but doesn’t offer any concrete plan. Does this mean he’s not super into it? Or am I overreacting and I should initiate the plan? I initiated the insta follow and the dm so I feel like it’s his turn…?

Does anyone know of a good dating app? I have tried using Hinge, which I thought is designed for people to date and not to hook-up. However, everyone I chatted with is asking for pics like they would on Grindr…is that just our culture?

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Hi can anyone suggest good pgs for men near deloitte Hyderabad.

Looking to settle a debate between myself and a few friends - at what point is it appropriate to ask someone you’re dating if they’re also dating other people? Relatedly, do you have an obligation to tell whoever you’re dating that you’re dating other people?

27 years M from suburbs Chicago looking to date

Having the clients love an idea you had to fight to present is a bittersweet win- you feel validated, but also wish your team backed you from the start...anyone else experience this?

Have you ever failed to deliver? What was it and why?

How do they decide onsite salary for Germany for an experienced Java Tech Lead in TCS(10 years) ? And what would be the onsite salary?

Deloitte or Accenture for instructional design? What’s the pay range offered at these firms?

Hello!
Would anyone from the tech or design industry be able to give some advice in understanding if the compensation I would be getting seems less or at a good level as I am starting to a job in a new city. Here are the details:

Location: London
Offering - £65K
Role: Senior Product Designer
Organization: mid-sized in software development
My YOE: 2.5 years after bachelors then 2 years Masters in London

I would really appreciate your views! Thank you :)

Best suitcase for actual suits/blazers?

New to luxury watches. Want to give them as gifts to Doctors in the family for taking care of us during these tough times. Willing to spend upto 5k on one watch and 2k on other. Appreciate any guidance from this bowl.

How much would digital media agencies charge in fees for a 3.5MM media buy? Planning/execution/reporting only.

Is it unusual to have a partner midway through a small engagement hand over his partner responsibilities to a Sn Mng (not on the engagement) and force the existing Sn Mng to report to them?

Boy do I love to compare myself to other people and then spend a weekend spiraling in self hatred. It’s just *chef’s kiss*

Any PgM level 4 or 5 here?

Hi Fishes,
What will be the annual hike/increment at Bny Mellon,Pune for Senior QA and Test Analyst position and will a professional whois joining in the month of November be considered for the annual appraisal in the appraisal cycle?
Could anyone advice on this?

Hi,

Is this a good time to join HP? As they have recently announced 6000 layoffs in 2 years.

Who here has pitched an idea only to be told that it's a dumb one but then you see a commercial and it's your idea?

Considering Leaving JP Morgan to join US bank is that a sounds move ? 9 years of software engineer experience - currently paid $135K plus bonus as Associate software engineer at JPMC- but I want a fully remote position that’s why considering making the move to US bank. Is it worth the move if they offer me the same salary? Or should I ask for more ?

I currently work at Amazon at L6 in Privacy. Thinking of going back to my motherland in India.

1. What would be the expected TC and WLB? My current TC is 301k.

2. Is an internal transfer an option? I have just started.

Thanks in advance!

Poor Pats 😥

Those who do financial modeling at work: for case study in interviews, is it bad practice to submit a model based on a premade template, assuming that I understand all formulas and incorporate my own reasonable assumptions? For reference, I don’t work with fundamental modeling (quant background) so I needed to get a template to teach myself. TIA

Hi guys, I am working as an Investment Analyst for a boutique asset management firm in Toronto, Canada (4bn AUM) making 70k annually. I am 5 months into this role. Credentials: 6 months of prior experience in this industry at a small startup + 2 years of work exp in retail banking, CFA L2 candidate, part time masters of finance student, bachelors from outside of Canada. I want to find out if I’m being paid fairly or I should aim higher. I don’t know my bonus yet (discussion in Dec)

Any former consultants on here? If so, why did you switch over to banking?

FRM is has narrow focus, demands depth, quick to complete

That Friday feeling...

What is your go to drink after work?

Working in Risk Management, looking into the FRM exams. Does anyone have any insight or advice?

How often do you go out for lunch vs. eat at your desk?

Is upward feedback ever appreciated?

Best home office chair? A bit late to the WFH game and just getting set up

Any insight on CAIA? Difficulty and whether it impacts salary?

For those of us in IB: are you in it for the long haul or are you just biding your time because you have no idea what else you want to do?

Been hearing a lot about the college debt burden. Let's compare... what's the debt number you've accumulated since graduating?

What's your workout routine? I've been trying to come up with the most efficient routine and sticking to it.

Has anyone taken a more junior role in investment banking to prove themselves to a higher caliber firm with the intent on them hiring you and promote you once they see your capabilities? Currently have a 1 YOE experience at a boutique investment bank and just did 3 interviews at a bulge bracket but failed to make it pass the last one due to the firm going with another Candidate

Knowing that I’m 50% tier in my level, how can I go up to the 75% or the higher end of my level? My manager says I’m a competitive hire but it’s not reflected in the comp. So I’m super confused

Who here actually owns a car and what kind of car is it?

Suggestions for good coffee in midtown? I don't care for the ambience, don't care if there's a little wait time. Just looking for good coffee. My current favorites are Cafe Grumpy and Blue Bottle.

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