How do you stop obsessing over a new romance?

In my 30s and have dated a lot. I've done casual flings, had a couple serious LTRs, been deeply in love, and had a lot of meaningless, purely physical hookups in my day.

Through all of these, my attachment style has always been secure as a fully realized person. I never needed someone to make me feel whole.

This new woman is completely intoxicating. She was clear: purely casual. It makes me want what I can't have, something more serious with her.

Any single girl in Bangalore?
25 M

Poll: single / dating / partnered..? The stresses of the traveling consultant lifestyle and the fickleness of the gay male have made it nearly impossible to date consistently. Do y'all agree?

Do you guys date at church? It gives me a lot of nervousness and anxiety so I tend to avoid it

Are there any black single men preferably childless between the ages of 36-45 in this group? Would be amazing if you lived in NJ

Thirty some female looking for a friend and travel companion. I am a no nonsense kinda person and just looking for Pure friendship /(buddy) with someone who lives and likes to travel (no benefits , no relationship, no BS) . Visiting nature spots in the US and around the world is on my bucket list. Idea to have a travel pal who also has similar goals. Not looking for relationship or any sort of dependency.

if a guy (senior) on ur engagement team asks you if you want to join him for one on one lunch or dinner during workday, is it a sign of interest or just being friendly?

So… are any NJ/NYC people planning a meet up?! 👀

Any 35+ male 🐠 want to chat and see where things go? 33F in a smaller East Coast US city but very willing to travel to meet in person if we actually hit it off.

I really miss breeding out one night stands.

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Any F 🐠 fish want to grab drinks today? 32/M

I need advice. I met an amazing guy on a dating app. We talked for 4 months and most of the convo was sexual. I fell so hard for him and it was because when we met up in person he was so kind, caring, and respectful towards me. He never initiated conversation with me first, but if I messaged him, he would respond back immediately. Then after 4 months he ghosted me on the app we were talking on. I texted him and he told me he had a gf. I am completely heartbroken. What kind of behavior was this?

So anyone single 🧐

Do you feel you have enough time in the week to start dating? I often leave work so drained that I dont have the time or energy to try and meet someone

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Any lady 🐠 up for a drink/dinner tonight? 23 M here.

Hi, M - 25 here looking to get into the dating scene. Just moved from Michigan, feel free to reach out!

Decided to start dating again - realized I would need to tell some poor guy some day soon that I moonlight as a dominatrix 😣 I make too much

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Hello Fishes,

Which one from below should we join.
Infosys -18 lpa
Cognizant -21 lpa

Does anyone have any suggestions on small side gigs or other ways to make some quick cash for the holidays?

Hello Fishes,

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To the people against abortion: What if someone was raped and got pregnant?

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When do you feel the most purpose?

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No offense, but I’ve never heard a sea shanty that didn’t go hard as hell

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I've never watched racing before but I woke up this morning to a Formula 1 Race on TV and left it on. Something about the cars routinely going round and round is surprisingly relaxing to me.

Do you consider your in-laws family? For example, if your spouse’s sibling has children, do you consider those kids as your family or your spouse’s family?

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I'm in my bag:(. Is there anyone I can DM for relationship advice? It's a long story. (BlackF26) for context.