Do you guys care what you're called? Servers, waiters, waitresses, who cares?

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I guess a lot of people these days prefer server. But I really don't care. I've been doing this job for 22 years, I've heard it all at this point.

I understand the point of it. Server is meant to be inclusive and gender neutral. With that being said, I don’t really care what I’m called.

I go with server in Canada, purely for the bilingual component of French and English having an almost interchangeable word. Back in Australia, I’d go with waitress, although I primarily bartend now anyhow !

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