Does anyone else ever yearn for a simpler life? I’m blessed with a loving family, great career, and high income, but I feel like so much of being a corporate lawyer is just insignificant nonsense that sad, lonely people make their entire lives and self worth. Some days I wish I could quit but I make way too much money and the alternative is somehow worse. Anyone else?

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Same. I wish our profession was just a career/job instead of a profession, as profession comes with ego and baggage for most. It makes things weird at every level.

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I think that’s the issue. There are normal people and then there are people obsessed with work and their career to the point where it’s like an overcommitted LARPer at the Ren Faire.

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You just need more work life balance. It certainly sounds like you’re in a position to set some boundaries

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I think it depends on what you mean by a simpler life. I dream of a stable, thriving career and early retirement.

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My simpler life will come when I retire early.

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Bro….that is not early retirement (just retirement 😞).

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I crave all the time, constant craving. But I haven’t yearned.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/SwhEgmBmh4g

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I am one fat lottery win away from retiring before I am 90. So, yes, I dream of a simple life free from the law every day, twice a day and three times on Sunday. Think of it, no more billing and collections pressures, no more made up deadlines, no more idiot partners screwing up perfectly good cases and blaming me, no more wondering if this is the day they fire me or the day I finally have a stroke at my desk. Oh wouldn't it be lovely. I am buying an extra lottery ticket.

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