Facing a very unique problem and need opinion and options. Married with 2 kids and both of us are earning decent enough with Husband earning almost 24-30 L more . Husband had always been very money minded but now it has gone to an extreme level. He doesn’t participate in any financial activity involved in running a family of four and has left all expenses in my bucket. He only pays for the school fees and cribs even a lot for that. I am having lot of mental stress due to this as I feel completel

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completely being financially manipulated by him. If I ask him to contribute he starts big fights in the house .Staying in One of the most expensive Metro with various kids classes, festivals, own expenses and kids expenses , household , maids, grocery ,gifting and all A to Z expenses. anyone can guess how big that will be. I want to know what legal option working women have in these situation without separation. Are there any laws which can protect rights of working women.

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Has ge changed after marriage?
What type of person he is ?
Discuss what he wants to do with Money?
Saving money for right purpose is good for future.
I also save money it needs time to grow, currently growing at 25% CAGR

Legally you can file maintenance case under section 125 of crpc for which you don’t need to divorce or live separately

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Law will destroy relationship

I have tried talking to him many times that at least go for equal distribution if u don’t want to do more . But he doesn’t agree for that as well.

Stop doing any expense on him including all his tea/coffee, food, laundry, etc. Let him do that on his own.

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