Feeling completely burnt out a from wedding planning and work. Our big day is in a month and I’ve been working crazy consulting hours 12+ hours/day for two months straight plus planning on top. My project was supposed to end last week but just got extended, meaning I’ll be working the same amount of hours right before my wedding. It is a destination wedding so I already took 2 full weeks of for wedding and honeymoon so I can’t take PTO before… any recommendations on what to do? Please help

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Totally understand. Could you pass responsibilities to your fiancé, wedding party, parents, or in-laws? Maybe schedule weekly massages or facials? Groupon has excellent deals if cost is a concern

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Of course! Do you have a day-of coordinator? If so, consider extending their services to month-of. Good luck🤗

Maybe talk to the other people on your team! They might be able to pick up some of your responsibilities at work as a “wedding gift”

My advice - personal life > professional life

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Do you have a wedding coordinator bc that’s the most obvious answer.

Make a list of what you have left to do. Usually at this point, you are just left with coordinating final details. Can you hire a DOC, or get your bridesmaid or family to help?

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