Felt so blessed IUI worked for us first time, even got extra lucky we had identical twins as a result. Now miscarrying at 9 weeks, I am so heartbroken, sore, anxiously waiting for the bleeding to really start. Don't know how I'm going to do this again, all I want is to hold my little baby

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Sending virtual hugs to you OP. I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏾😔

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Has your doctor confirmed you are miscarrying? Also, are you sure it is both babies?

Also, if truly the case- most often this is due to generic abnormalities vs smth you did, and the embryos have not been compatible with life anyhow

Sending you hugs! This is a though journey

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My heart aches for you! I’m so sorry :(

I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏

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