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200 seems to be unimaginable. When you say we separated from dad, who all comes in that we. Further, did you ask the girl or girl’s family as why they have rejected your alliance. Are you strict about getting in your caste only?
And you said during the process they don’t ask you about the person you are , so what all do they ask you then
I suggest that you consult an expert like Marriage Counselor on how to tackle this issue.
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Is your mother intrusive in your personal boundary? Other familly might get such a vibe from your side?
I have the same background as yours. My mother is intrusive. And i hate that. I have taken a separate 1BHK and stay alone.
No my mother is not intrusive at all she is very open, believe in being independent, that has never been a concern for every one but i hardly reach to that stage
Two points to note - 1. Not having own house 2. Not having stable married life of your parents. Both of which are perceived as indicators of an unstable life. No offence but there have been many real incidents in the past when in similar set up, the man gets married to multiple women and then sell them off or kill them after getting financial/sexual benefits. (See relevant crime patrol episodes). I suggest you purchase your own house if you are seeking to settle down in a marriage. That should solve your problem.