Fishes, I’m here for your moral support.
My mother got brain stroke today. I’m sitting at the hospital, can’t sleep, mind is torturing with the worst case scenarios.
My father got brain stroke a few years back and is paralysed. Mother was the source of strength and used to single handedly take care of dad.
First time I saw her lose hope and cry today.
I’m shattered. I don’t know how I’m going to take care of both my parents… how am I going to be brave enough for both of them….

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Bro I pray for you 🙏…stay strong…ye waqt bhi beet jaayega

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Stay strong buddy... I know it is easy to say but this is a phase of life and it shall pass... I hope both of them recover fast . Take a few days off from work maybe sabbatical. 🙏

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Thank you

Stay strong bro. I pray that everything will be fine 🤞🤞

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Thank you

Tu kar lega bro
Tension nahi lene ka
Shuru me thori takleef hogi
But you will figure everything out as usual
Will pray for your family
Be strong

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Thank you

I would stay focussed on each day, one thing at a time. Try and just live in the moment. It helps. Trust me.
What each one has to go through, can not change what is destined. Accept the situation.

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Thank you everyone. Your kind words and motivation helped me get through troubled times. Situation is manageable, God was kind that day.
Wishing you all the best. Thank you for taking time to show me empathy. Please keep motivating and supporting the community.

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Glad, wishing you strength, always!

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It’s not easy watching your parents suffer, knowing you can’t do anything to take away their pain.
No matter what kind of relationship you have with your parents, as their child — even as an adult — you’ll always see them through the eyes of a child.
Your parents have done everything they could for you. Now it’s payback time — you have to stand up and take charge. You are strong “Kar loge tum” 👍

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This too shall pass

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If you need help, please feel free to reach out. I am sure this is a phase, and things will become better.

Stay strong buddy! ❤️

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