Getting ghosted by a recruiter after a great interview stings extra hard. That familiar rejection sensitivity hits like a ton of bricks, doesn't it? How do you all cope?

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Struggling over here too but trying to focus on my values and my worth. I dont know what happened on their end and wont know it - it could have nothing to do with me (like economy or budget concerns) - so I just have to focus in what I can control

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Ugh, this just happened to me too, so I feel you. Honestly, I was a mess for a few days, but I'm just trying to remember the positive sides of my current position!

Call, they are too busy to search through emails.

Recruiters will ghost you if they get someone better. If no response in 2 days it’s done. That is my rule. Move on.

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