Has anyone tried the Archer app for gay/bi dating? I’m over swipe culture on Hinge and Bumble and wanting to shake things up. The guys in this bowl seem like my type, so where do y’all shop at? Asking for a 33M who’s done with ‘sup,’ ‘looking?,’ and the ghosts of Christmases past.

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

Has anyone met their significant other on salams or Muzz? Or any other apps? What’s your experience been like?

Have started going on dates with a guy. Our dates don’t seem to be consistent. One date is great and the next date is just ok. Is this normal?

Any single girl in Bangalore?
25 M

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

Any 40F interested in connecting?

35F divorced with a kid. I think I will never get remarried or in a serious relationship again. Lots of men don't like dating women with children. At my age either the guys are past their prime, divorced/ing and have to provide half their income to their first wife. Many with kids live on the same street as their ex wives so they can be close to their child. I'm not comfortable dating guys like that. On the flip side there are the ones that were never married, which by this age cont

Dating my guy for 6 months now and he’s just such a lovely soul but I’m not physically attracted, there’s no spark and I’m afraid to let go but also afraid to keep holding on..

SO I have been dating for couple months doesn’t have friends and wants to hang out all the time, is this a red flag?

I matched with someone in Bumble but am actually interested in one of the guys from one of the group pictures he had. How rude will it be if I ask him? I know it’s rude but J lol - please don’t fry me

Are you a female?

Serious question: I’m too culturally Korean to be a marketable product in the US dating market. I’m too culturally American to be marketable in the Korean dating market. What do I do?

Anyone up for a chat? M here looking for M 😛

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Once when I was waiting tables, I had a guy pay me cash. The change was 45 cents, which I didn't give back to him because like who wants that. He then asked where the change was, and when I explained that I didn't give back the loose change, he made a big stink about how dollars and cents matter and didn't leave me a tip. He was a republican staffer on capitol hill.

Bored on a Sunday night, any female fish feel like chatting

Any single females in the Evanston area want to grab a drink tonight?

Any female fish want to grab a drink this weekend?

What is it like to work in a core immigration role at infosys Bpm.

Did anyone recieved 30 day notification of your scheduled return to office mail
Today or before ?

We are looking for Qliksense profile with experience of 6 years to be joined ASAP. The requirement is in Delhi NCR and the candidate should be able to understand Hindi.

Is it a red flag to not use your current employer as a reference or would this not be noticed? I have other references I want to use who I think can better attest to my skills for the job but don’t want it to raise any questions.

Desi women - how much do you spend on an average on casual outfits, one that you’d wear for a casual lunch but not fancy dinner? I see posts on the Women in Consulting group where everyone seems to be spending what seems to be extravagant for my liking ($200+), and was curious if that was a desi vs American thing..

acd: “would you do meth everyday for a year for ten million dollars? you'd be able to choose where you rehab for free and —”

ad: “i’d do it for one million”

I read this super interesting article about how big companies like Toyota are investing in social-emotional training for their employees and seeing massive benefits. I actually think this could be a whole separate class for students of all ages. Learning about conflict resolution, growing your own self-regulation skills...it's really important.

I would like how much other individuals are taking home as a Cash analyst in North Texas?

Last year I moved internally from a
Paralegal level 11 w/ 14 yrs exp at
$100k base + up to 8% bonus to my
current role as compliance manager
level 9 at $123k base + up to 35%
bonus. I was above cap in my prior
role and now my range is up to $138k
base. I'm being recruited to my old
team as a level 10
Manager with
same base/bonus as now but since it's
a lower level I will cap out within a
year. I always found the legal work
more interesting but limited in career
growth. Not sure what to do.

I've been asked to provide a start-up life sciences co. with reccos for D&O insurance. Does anyone have any reccos to share?

Hi all! I’m looking to start consulting for design systems work. Freelancers, I am curious what sorts of admin documents do you prepare for your client during the whole process? For example what type of contracts, statement of work, etc. Thanks!

IS there any instance you know of in which LTI revoked or took back its offer after giving offer letter. If so what circumstances

What “self help” books are you guys reading? I just read Untamed by Glennon Doyle and wow, I want to start from the beginning again, but feel like I should read something else. Would love any suggestions.

I’ve been getting really depressed out of nowhere. It’s not really related to anything that’s going on in my life. Is there something wrong with the chemicals in my brain or something? I’m taking vitamin B12 and D3 but they’re not really helping

Singaporean here. Got retrenched recently and am seeking a new job in Singapore-- looking at content, copywriting, paid media, digital marketing, communications roles. Ok to post here I hope?

Anyone who plays badminton or squash casually here?

What do y’all think about the new Copyright Small Claims courts that will be set up within the year?

What are the best product based companies in Hyderabad for testing roles?

4YOE

Can anyone help me with the salary range for a Business associate at Swiggy?

Anyone in NYC this Thursday eve? Looking to go out and have a fun time. Tips/companions welcome :)

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

I have an interview with McKinsey on Monday, any tips/suggestions?

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

I need to switch teams or firms. Been here for a year and no development or projects with my team. Gay network help! Lol

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

Hi everyone,

29F in my second year of business school and going on exchange CBS in NYC for 5 months. I want to have a fun experience, meet other WLW, queers, and take advantage of what the city has to offer. I will be living in midtown west.
Where should i hang out? the bars? night club? gym for work out?

Why are some people not into feet?

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.

I’m considering going to grad school in Dublin or Sydney. Can anyone tell me what gay life is like in either of those cities?

Anyone have experience with Keeps? Does it work? (M 30’s here)

Moving to Seattle soon. I could use dates or friends 😅

Can Grindr be used as a dating app?

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

I’m worried that my voice, communication style, and body language comes across as too effeminate for our straight clients and peers. I’m transitioning to sales now and am insecure that my personality and appearance may hinder sales gen? Client industry is very old school. Can LGBT partners//Ds/MDs chime in how they managed the same transition?