Have started going on dates with a guy. Our dates don’t seem to be consistent. One date is great and the next date is just ok. Is this normal?

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Completely normal...however many people end the dating because they think it's supposed to all be hot sparks every date...slow burn is what is needed...get to know them etc.

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The biggest question is, are you excited for the dates and excited to wanna see him? Every date isn’t gonna be a Rom Com movie first date, some are just gonna be “dates”. If not, he’s not the one. In my experience if it's not a hell yes, then it's a no…

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Let’s cut to the chase… how’s the sex?

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