Serious question: I’m too culturally Korean to be a marketable product in the US dating market. I’m too culturally American to be marketable in the Korean dating market. What do I do?

My husband does not show affection openly and is quite lazy in bed, and I thought I could deal with it because I love him, but it’s really really beginning to annoy me. For example, he refuses to do any foreplay and basically asks that I get on top of him most of the time when we have have sex- if I push him to do anything else he basically just refuses to have sex at all as some sort of ‘protest’. I am finding myself fantasising about an affair more and more

I am feeling naughty since morning! Anyone sharing the feeling?

Any female fish in Downtown SFO, want to grab a drink and bite? 30M here

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

Has anyone had any success doing online dating to find their catholic significant other? I would have loved finding someone in Consulting but just finding someone that is openly catholic has been a challenge.

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Any 40F interested in connecting?

🎶I don't know why I slept with that guy,
Perhaps I was high...🎵

Out with friends in Long Island, where the cute single men at 😝 (we are females)

Considering dating apps—any insights?

I am feeling so lonely, looking for a genuine guy. For friendship.
I am 24 good looking from pune.
Apologies for posting here.

Just made the conscious decision to go through cuffing season single and feeling proud of myself for not keeping on seeing someone just to have a date to go out with couple friends for the next few months 👏🏽

Biggest red flag (of a few I’ve noticed after only a couple of dates) was when he came over for dinner last night and acted weird around my dog and said, to my face, that dogs belong outside 😒 feels better to be single as a Pringle rather than being with someone like that.

How do younger Females feel about dating or getting into a relationship with older people, age gap 5-6 years 🤔

Genuine responses

Any thoughts on open relationships? Has anyone tried one? I’m curious. Kinda wanna explore that but unsure.

Just gamed with some guys (freshmen and sophmore). I am almost 30 and they remind me of those old days. Miss those fun and young friendships. All my friends married and have kids now.

F 39 I’m officially on search for a husband (shamelessly). What do you guys like in a lady, what kind of look grabs your attention? What do I need to wear?? My male friends tell me I need more revealing clothes! 😂

Has anyone tried any paid dating apps? (Match, eHarmony, paid features on Hinge etc.) and is it worth it?

With hot girl summer upon us I have rejoined Hinge and am ready to mingle. Curious to hear thoughts on if you would (or would not) go out with a new person you met off the internet based upon their vaccination status?

Hi Folks,

I wanted to know about the work life balance at Bain and Company in the global people analytics department?
And what yearly appraisals one can expect?

Thanks

How long, after getting your first full-time gig, did it take to put something in your portfolio?

Hi fishes
I got a opportunity with my current organisation as Identity Access Management developer(IAM)
I want to know how will be the career growth and job opportunities in future.
If any one has idea about please do share your feedback

Did anyone come to know about your tier or hike or bonus? Please do share...
Soooo much waiting....

What's Deal Tech team in EY Parthenon? What do they do?

What are other Sr Solution Consultants making in total compensation? Salary + Commission?

Hi All, I am currently a Data Analyst with 1 year of experience and pursuing a masters in Computer Science (expected to graduate 5/2023). I am looking to transition into an entry Data Scientist role (preferably remote or Philadelphia, PA). Can someone refer me or let me know who is hiring?

I can provide my resume if needed.

Hi Fishes, Need advise on tech stack. I am a Mainframe developer with 6+ years of experience. Which tech stack would be more suitable between Devops or Data Science or Mainframe modernization. I already resigned and have 2 months to join new company. Also please let me know if anybody have switched technology in current organisation or new organisation from mainframe and which company to target which could offer exposure to other technology along with Mainframe. Thanks

I’m currently a Risk Analyst and a full time MBA student. I don’t have any experience working on the investment side of the bank but I would really like to pivot into an investment analyst role. I’m from America, but currently working in London and would really like to stay here. Does anyone have any tips or advise that might help me land an investment analyst role in London?

Genuinely curious if Bill Nye encouraged anyone's science career?

Hello I have an online interview scheduled for power programmer having 2 years of experience what kind of questions can I accept ? Will there be a coding test too if so would it be technology based or DSA?

I feel bad for the people who got into supply chain management and are burned out. I feel like they get the short end of the stick, and it truly is not a bad career at all, I think maybe some of them just aren't cut for it.

What are some up and coming production companies in your opinion? 🤔

If your manager gives a false commitment of onsite then what can be done against the manager ?

Anyone aware of ways of getting discounted 4-5 day lift passes? Specifically at aspen? 😬

What can you do if you’re getting interviewed by the same person who didn’t choose you in the first place?
Context: I applied for a position a while back and got interviewed, but didn’t go to the next round. I found the same position open again a month later at a different location and applied. Almost immediately, I was called for an interview, but with the same interviewer. What does this mean? Is this going to get awkward?

Hi Fishes

How much EXL provides for the Senior Consultant role.

Some information for which i was offered -
Experience - 5.5 years
Role - Data Analytics and Business Intelligence
Offered -
25 lpa fixed
12% variable
Band - C1
Designation - Senior Consultant

At PwC(S&) are evaluations (career roundtables) driven primarily by utilization? How much do reinvest and snapshots play?

What drives you to continue to grind? For me, it’s pride

Any of you all going to be in Vegas Dec 31-Jan 4? Let’s party

Is this bowl alive?!? Just found this bowl!!

I’d cut out all interaction with Chinese establishments (no takeout /dim sum, no mani/pedi, no Panda Express) the past month, looks like I need to stay clear of Koreans as well! #sorrynotsorry

January 13th is Korean-American Day!

Don't forget to honor those Korean-Americans that have made sacrifices and contributions to pave way for a better life and nation.

Where’s everybody based?!

Guys....we can do better than 55 consultants.

How are my Koreans/KAs doing todayy

Any Korean / Korean-American management consultants in NYC that would be down to meet up?

Korean 🐠, where is everyone from? I’m Chicago transplant originally from LA

Any of you suffering from a bad case of imposter syndrome?

Happy Chuseok, Fam!

Anyone in the DC metro area? I just moved to Arlington. Looking to blend in culture.

Any Korean 🐠 in Denver? I’m craving a somek night!

Nothing like making seolleongtang on a lazy Saturday afternoon! What other dishes that remind you of home? Any recipes?

My mother is considering moving back to Korea...

Favorite Sunday Korean meal before travel?

Jajangmyun date anyone?