I matched with someone in Bumble but am actually interested in one of the guys from one of the group pictures he had. How rude will it be if I ask him? I know it’s rude but J lol - please don’t fry me

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If he’s a true bro he’d help out his friend in the pic

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Super rude

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You cray cray

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Lol

He seems very nice but we are not looking for the same so we agreed to unmatched. I didn’t tell him anything 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️.

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I don’t think it’s that rude? There are thousands of people on dating apps, if one is interested in a buddy of mine I am happy to pass them along. Alternatively, you can unmatch them. Who cares?

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I fail to see why it’s rude, but moot point now I suppose

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Don’t ask, it is rude. Just move on. You learned a lesson: don’t match with people that are only group photos (it’s impossible to tell which one they are I’m not doing their work for them so I swipe right)

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I could tell which one he was. Lol

I don’t think it’s rude. Do it.

Where were all the people thinking it’s not rude? Now I unmatched the guy without asking about his friend lol.

Sorry OP. Those others are just stuffy goody two shoes. Not sure why it is rude since you barely know this person. He would just be like wing man and men are typically ok with it. But note this other guy may not be on the market anyway.

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