Hey Dads, how do you prevent unwanted pregnancy? Condoms or others? Feels weird having the missus on pills and don’t want to get snipped, so we just use condoms, which obvIously doesn’t feel as nice 😔

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Vasectomy after kids. Wife's sex drive increased drastically after she got off the pill. I'd go through the pain of snipping a couple times a year if I had to, for that reason alone.

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I’m gay so I know that works. But I did have sex 1time w/ 1 women then boom I have a kid 🧒 😂

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Can’t be true 🤪

IUD before and In between kids. Vasectomy after kids.

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Pill before desired kids. Vasectomy after. If we need temp long-term option, would do IUD or injection

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Rhythm method or pull out

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The pill made my wife really sick for some reason, so we use condoms with spermicide. Not the best but it works so far. I’m nervous every month

Booz 1 you are nervous with condoms. This is not the 14th century. The lamb skin condoms are mechanically engineered. Grab the right size and you should be safe.

@EY2, condoms technically still give only a 99,1% rate of success

I am going for a vasectomy. Any feedback from those that have been clipped?

It's not so much painful as it is EXTREMELY intense pressure. I also didn't think about having a female clean and prep me, so that was slightly weird.

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We use NFP.

What’s NFp?

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