Hey ladies! I am recently single (last one year) and am starting to consider dating again. How are you meeting people? And how hard is it to find a SO who is equally successful? It’s one of my non-negotiables and this makes the dating pool much smaller.

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If you are above 30, it's hard to meet a quality and successful men because successful men have an overinflated ego and allow themselves to do things they shouldn't (cheat, not work on themselves, etc) because they think women will stay w them for their money. But this only attracts bad women and then the men say all women are bad, not realizing they just don't put in effort and time into a quality woman and don't work on themselves to create a healthly relationship.

Separately, most men over 30 are not single and those who are, are not driven or successful. Sorry but that's the ugly truth

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I’m mid 30s and have recently met nice guys via volunteer work and a speed dating event!

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It’s an experience dating out there right now, that’s all I can say. Keep those non-negotiables strong and there are decent people out there, even if you don’t match up in the end. But there’s also a lot of nonsense out there too. I can’t keep up with the apps anymore and just try to ask if anybody knows anybody a lot.

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Not meeting people. Have joined the B4 movement unofficially.

It’s where we don’t date men.

Do I dare ask how old you are? If you’re middle-aged, it’s a challenge. Every man I meet is someone’s husband, fiancé or boyfriend. None of my friends know any single men. I haven’t been brave enough to try the apps but I’ve been told that’s the only way to meet people these days.

Idk, please let me know! 😭

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I’m 27 for everyone asking, I got slammed at work and forgot I made this post lol

This gives me a little hope

I'm on hinge for 2 years now and the dating pool sucks. Also around the same age as OP

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