For my bisexual folks out there, do you ever give the opposite sex a try.? Then you’re like uhhh nah. I was on date number two he’s a great guy. I just couldn’t get into it sexually. Then I started looking at women again :) 🤷‍♀️ it happens right … feel like I’m going to be single forever

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I’m not single anymore but when I was I would have times where I felt mostly gay or mostly straight or very bisexual. Came to terms with that just being my bisexual experience. I know that I find women, men, and non-binary people attractive.

Funny thing is that having relationship experiences with people validated my bisexuality for me, because while every dating experience is different, there were very similar underlying feelings and emotions and attractions that were happening with me. You’ll figure it out. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

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Bisexuality is also on a spectrum. Physically, I’m more attracted to women. But emotionally, only to men. And it’s them who I seek relationships with.

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Female, I feel this but I’m opposite in that i’m more emotionally attracted to women (or at least easier to connect with) but lean towards men physically. Granted, it doesn’t help that I’m pretty sure I also classify as demisexual

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I don’t know maybe when I was drinking 🥃 🍷 🍺 more/ heavier I was more open to men haha ohh my … 🤷‍♀️

Like the thought of hooking up with a guy dating a guy feels good but like spending tons of time together and making out …. Not really

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I really enjoyed kissing the few guys that I did before being married. It’s the strength behind it that was nice. Tender but powerful was hot. That’s what I missed most. Enjoy watching some gay porn but pretty vanilla.

Visually/sexually attracted to both pretty equally, had some great guy experiences in college, but happily married to a woman for many years. Just fantasize now *sigh*.

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Literally same boat lol. Men do nothing for me but I’ve had a couple good ones but I only love them until they want to touch me 😂 then I’m out

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I am also pickier/have more of a type for guys than girls, so I relate to this 🙌 Also, bi implies you like the two cis genders equally which I have never found to be the case, plus I like genders beyond cis sooooo... you like who you like 🤷‍♀️ Wave that flag Tax Manager 🏳️‍🌈

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Hmmm. Have you ever been attracted to guys?

No I’ve only liked occasionally hooking up with them. I’m physically way more into women . Generally way more into women.
Which maybe I just need to accept that

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