F 39 I’m officially on search for a husband (shamelessly). What do you guys like in a lady, what kind of look grabs your attention? What do I need to wear?? My male friends tell me I need more revealing clothes! 😂

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If you're MC / AP / P then I don't mind what you wear. What I do care about is whether you're happy for me to be a stay-at-home-dad 🤣

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It’s not want you want to here but don’t change or conform. Look how you like to look, dress how you want, and the right person will come. Changing yourself will only attract what you don’t want!

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I’m open to different styles, my styles goes from practical and comfy to fancy for the right occasion 😊 I would not wear something that’s “not me”, one thing that I hate is flowery patterns…

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I thought this a was bowl to discuss professional matters and not finding husbands and wives, lol.

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What do you mean?

First, putting yourself out there, including the apps, is probably your best bet, speaking as a single 38M. Second, as A1 said, unless your dress sense is atrocious, showing more skin isn't going to help, will probably attract the wrong crowd.

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Let us know how the date goes 😍

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You’re a 39 year old woman and you’re asking what to wear on a date?

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Lovely comment A1, I was in a relationship and then I didn’t want to be in a relationship and now I do again. I’m guessing by your comment you might be young. Life not always go to plan but I like to go where it takes me

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Rooting for you - nearly 32F and about to get back into the dating scene - the amount of time to devote to dating isn’t promising

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Also why now at 39?

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What kind of question is this?

Oof - 39 - based SOLELY on average distribution curves for ages and typical biology (you may well be smokeshow - in which case hit me up) I'd suggest that this is a fine line. You may end up competing for the wrong attention against girls 10+ years younger than you - tough battle to win. Less is more. My interpretation of your males friends' commentary is that you may come across as a little frumpy - that does not mean you need to start exposing everything!

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C3 I do consider myself a smoke show but I’m not sure I want to hit you up 😂

DM me, I'll give you genuine feedback. Married 38 M, so I won't hit on you.

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Not all men are douche bags!

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