Hi. any single/straight, employed males here interested in being friends with a woman in her 50s? Me: No children, nonsmoker/drinker with one cat. lol

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Been on a few dates with this guy and he literally keeps using the washroom every 10-15 mins!

He would leave to use the washroom like 3 times in one meal- has anyone else experienced this? I just feel so weird about it

I have a wee crush on one of the partners in my firm and I thought he liked me too, but neither of us did anything about it (which is entirely appropriate). That was all pre-Rona. Now I’m leaving the firm and pursuing another opportunity and staying in the same city. Since he’ll no longer be my boss, is there a way to find out if my feeling was correct? How should I go about this? (Especially given Rona?)

31 F based in Chicago. Does anyone want to talk?

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?

Going on a first date in a long time tonight … feeling nervous 🙈

Are you a female?

27 years M from suburbs Chicago looking to date

Hi anyone up for casual chit chat?

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Felt particularly good about how I looked today. And when I saw that a certain someone wasn’t at the office, I felt disappointed. Didn’t realize I was attracted until then. How do I un-realize it? 🤦🏼‍♀️

Men - do you try to get out of an argument/fight by pretending like nothing happened? Why so?

Any smart, funny and caring Desi F Interested in connecting? Trying really hard to avoid the matrimonial route.

Ladies my hair is soooo badly heat damaged from the roots to the ends that i need a big chop :( ... im really self conscious about how i would look and men finding me attractive. Can someone offer any advice on how to style it?

How to deal with people flirting with you at work.
I’m married, and one of my coworkers flirts with me. Nothing super overt, but definitely not professional. We’re good friends and work together constantly because we’re on the same client, so I don’t want to make it awkward. Do I just do nothing and let it go? It is mostly just odd I’m not super offended, but I’m also clearly uninterested!

Considering dating apps—any insights?

Asker outers- make reservations. I’m tired of going to dinner or drinks and finding out my date’s plan is winging it and the place doesn’t have space. Make a reservation!! It takes one min!!

Can someone please suggest me a good course on Salesforce?

I am a starter and have zero knowledge about Salesforce

Does anyone know of any consulting/advisory companies hiring?

Affordable PG for Boys

Shared accomodation available in 3BHK
Location: Pimpri Area (Pune)
Landmark: Pimpri Station Rd

*DM for details*

Rent: Rs.3500 per bed/per month
Deposit: Rs.5000 per bed

- Fully Furnished
- Direct Owner
- Car & Bike parking available
- Standalone Building
- Electricity bill will be shared equally among all tenants
- Rs.1000 to be paid by tenant for notarized agreement
- Maid charges (for cleaning room) included in rent
- Max 3 people in 1 room

Which one should I go for?

1. Oracle - 18.3 LPA fixed + probable bonus (I may or may not get)
2. Amadeus - 18 fixed + 1.5 variable.

Amadeus is also giving joining bonus of 75k. Amadeus is paying more, may give better hikes too, but I am finding it hard to let go off Oracle's brand name on my resume even if it's means around 2L less over an year. I am planning to work for atleast 3 years in my next company.

What would you have done in my place? Should I go for Oracle or Amadeus?

Hi, I got an offer letter from oracle as software engineer. Offered package was 17.91LPA including pf (17 fixed )

My YOE: 3.6.

CCTC: 10.5

Tech Stack: Java, Spring Boot, Microservices.

I already have an offer of 19LPA(16 fixed + pf + 2.4 variable + 2 JB).

Can i show this to oracle to revise my compensation?? will they consider it??

Right-wing Republican moving family from deep blue progressive city. Looking for excellent schools, low property taxes. reasonable housing prices, and a high percentage of Republican voters. Any suburb recommendations?

How's everyone doing this weekend?

Can somebody refer me for a splunk role at cgi? Please dm if you can help

Hello Fishes, I have 7 days for joining. please help me decide below

UST Global - 19 Fixed + 1 Variable + 1 Joining bonus

NTT Data - 16 Fixed + 2.2 variable

i can ask NTT to match the offer, if they match which is good to join??

Techstack - Backend engineer with Python, Django, DRF, SQL

YOE - 5 years

These slides being used by the House Impeachment Managers are beautiful. Which one of you is helping to create them?

Whats the pay bracket for below
Y0e 10
Offered designation supervising associate 1 He is yet to confirm on the compensation part
Cuurently working as AM

Is retail quant trading on a massive rise?

Is there a concept of probation in PWC India Technology Consulting? I just received the offer letter and I don't see anything mentioned about it.

Advice & resources? My spouse and I are starting to make good money (ages 28 & 31, $105k & $70k) with $10k in savings (we were hit hard financially this year) and 2 car payments.

We live in a cheap apartment ($1.3k) that is sh*tty. Don’t quite have a down payment (especially not in ATX). Is it dumb to rent a house for a year at $3k/month while we save up again?

We both didn’t come from $ and are figuring out how to not be idiots 🙃 tbh we would prefer to rent forever but that feels dumb???

If an employee files a complaint about workplace behavior, do you treat them differently? I'm faced with reporting an SM for bullying and finding it near imposible to believe that it won't (cont'd)

If you’ve seen Baki how do you feel about Muhammad Ali Jr v Baki fight??

How's everyone doing this weekend?

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?

Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30

Would you marry someone that’s unemployed or doesn’t want to work? What’s the minimum salary you can accept from your SO ?

How about everyone plan a get together on a weekend in a bar know each other and build this community?

Meet up Announcement: start your Labor Day weekend off right! Tomorrow, 9/4 @ 5:30PM. Heckscher Playground. Comment if you want to be added to the group!

Any Female fish want to grab brunch and watch the Masters this weekend

Would folks be interested in a NYC singles of fishbowl party? I know a solid venue

Looking for a running buddy in the city. DM me for deetz!

What does being a chief in a bowl mean?

Hey Fishes, looking for safe quiet places for a single person which are quiet but within ~45 min to times square area?

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

Who does like a strong espresso?

Hello! Any single men would like to chat? If you’re engaging, not a weirdo, and can a hold convo, you can slide into my dm’s. 30/f/nyc 😋

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Any NY F fish want to grab a drink this evening? 31M here.

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

Single 30M working at a tech firm.
I would love to buy shoes for a few ladies