Ladies my hair is soooo badly heat damaged from the roots to the ends that i need a big chop :( ... im really self conscious about how i would look and men finding me attractive. Can someone offer any advice on how to style it?

What’s the best way to meet people in a new city? I’m lonely anyone up for a chat?

After everyone gets vaccinated, thinking of starting a desi singles meet up. Details will be shared later. Who’s in?

How many people have hooked up with someone on their team? Is it that common?

There are too many men out there who think that just because I'm being polite, it's a sign that they should flirt with me while I'm at work. I thought this was 2022, why haven't we as a society gotten past this yet?

Been in Austin for a while now and have never dated but would like to start. Any tips/suggestions on where to find quality people? (F, 28)

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

42 M - NY area - divorced, looking to meet new folks.

How probable is it to schedule dropbox appt today and get a date within next 3 weeks in India?

Any F 🐠 in DC interested in a Navy Yard drink? 36M

I’m 💁‍♀️🐠. Was in a long-term relationship that ended last year and since then I’ve been on an extended celibacy run to work on myself etc. I’m looking to get back into the dating scene. Part of me wants to just get some 🍆 action (to quench the thirst) then start to look seriously. Any advice on dating?

What's your date of Jalsa??

Quick poll for single guys : how often do you have random hookups?

In lieu of all the recent posts about people crushing , being seduced, borderline taped in PA.. I'm a relatively attractive girl (at least most boys says so) and no one has made a move on me at work.

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

Met a great woman this weekend. We are going on a date at the end of the month. Both have crazy schedules end of this month and next . I can’t stop thinking about her :) happy pride 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

Only came here to type that am a woman looking for a relationship
Quiet, well-manered, healthy life-style
Love to stay home, not a party person
Independent and candid
I do not Ghost or string Long.

Texting someone I met on a dating app and they are adamant that text messages can’t be admitted in court as evidence. I haven’t yet told them I’m a lawyer lol. They work in tech but of course, they know all about the rules of evidence because they studied criminology at community college. 🤯

Is there is any hook up corner or spot in your firm.
Just curious to know?

First trimester insomnia?
I’m only about 5 weeks, but my sleep schedule has gone off the rail the last three nights. I’m sleepy/drowsy, settled in bed around the same time every night, and yet I cannot fall or stay asleep. I have a white noise machine, comfy bed, cool room.. etc. When I do fall asleep, it’s earlier in the morning and I sleep until 1/1:30pm. This was fine the first few nights since it was the weekend, but it can’t keep up. Anyone else experience this and have any recommendations?

Anyone taken the GD test after having covid recently? I have my test in 10 days and I'm currently recovering from covid.

Did you do the NIPT? I just had my first prenatal appt and they scheduled me for the NIPT at 10 weeks. I’m a little nervous and anxious. Did anyone get it and got a false positive? Do you not recommend it? I wish I could ask family but we’re not telling anyone until the 12 weeks mark.

Rising 2L here…Just found out yesterday that one of my top target law firms is not participating in OCIs (they don’t have offices in my state). Any advice on the best way to move forward with them? Still planning to apply, just want to know what I should be doing. Thanks!

What’s your go-to method of dealing with the inevitable Sunday afternoon tsunami of anxiety, depression, and regret?

Hey Peeps, I got an offer from Thoughtworks. I heard that you get some stocks too. But the offer letter does not mention it. HR confirmed it though that there would be a separate communication regarding the same. I have 7.5 YOE and joining as Senior consultant QA. How much stocks value can i expect to get?

I have code pairing round for data engineer profile.

Please can anyone provide me with heads up.
I'm really looking forward to join TW.

Anyone working in thoughtworks as Devops/infra ? Please let me know,need one help.

Just got another rejection... Is exiting to FAANG or MB really this hard? Trying to go tech.. or mbb, but not getting anywhere. I have 2 masters (mba, ms) from top schools, been in consulting for over 10 years, I am confident that I know my stuff well..but still I keep getting rejected. Interviewed with Google, Amazon, Cisco, McKinsey, and a few others and every-time there is something that is not a match... are the hiring managers looking for like 100% match? That will never happen!!!

Has anyone heard about GSAP decision news yet?

Who is better for India? I think she will do wonders if she becomes a vice president. What do you think?

Anyone carried 65inch TV to india from US? Anything in particular I should be careful about at check in and customs ?

How many of you still wake up early to watch Test matches ?? I have woken up 3am EST to watch India vs Australia, India vs SA series

How is the cloud oracle practice in Grand Thornton with respect to project opportunities, growth and leadership?

I have received an email from tcs that your address verification will be done abc company. My question is will there be different companies hired for different checks or will the same company carry further background checks like employment and education?

I know the general answer to this, but I want to know others response.
If by your 30’s you’re mostly established in life, why is it then harder to establish a long lasting relationship with someone ?

Hey🥺 i have curly hair but lately im not sure if it’s constant rain/humidity or something (I haven’t changed my routine at all) but in the last two and a half weeks the tips of my hair have been extremely dry and don’t even curl they’re just sort of waves at the moment...are they just like extremely dead ends or? Lmk if you have suggestions on how to fix my hair :(

I'm a day late for Star Trek Day, but I love how all of the black women in the new series have natural hair. Even in the cartoons they do.

I just want to say that the Revair is life changing. Wash day uses to take me 4 hours. Now, the whole process is just under 2 🙌🏾

I wonder what the next generation of girls' relationship with their hair will be like. I hope that all of our collective efforts will cause them to be proud of their hair. Do you think natural hair is normalized now?

I currently use a really great hair care line but I'm looking to switch to a Black-owned hair care line that includes a really great gel and deep conditioner (both necessities in my routine) as part of its product line.

Any recommendations?

My blowout shrinks so fast. I would like to use a flat iron to help, but I've never used one before. Would straightening it at 150-180° even do anything? I don't want heat damage, so I don't want to go above that.

Has anyone on here suffered with scalp psoriasis and had success treating it? I've struggled with it for a few years, and I found that the last few months it has just gotten horrible. My scalp will start flaking the day after I wash it and I can visibly see large flakes in my hair - and I'm sure other people can too. It's getting embarassing and not sure what to do other than medication which I've heard can cause hair loss. I've tried ACV rinses and tea tree oil, but no real results.

Has anybody used "JuicesNBerries" products yet? Or been to the "Her growing hands" salon? Reviews?

Anyone else have patches of hair that never want to grow? My upper left side in the back has always been way shorter than the rest of my hair

Hey ladies, I’ve been having some hair loss and shedding recently. Any advise on methods or products on how to get my thick tresses back 😩

Okay so! I’m a guy and I have curly hair - I interchange between two products or sometimes I do a combo of them. However sometimes my hair dries so nice and my curls look hydrated and shiny and then other times it dries and it looks like legit moss, does anyone know why that is? I try to retrace my steps on the days it looks good but it really does seem to be at random...could it be how I’m drying my hair? Lmk

Anyone use Carol's Daughter products before L'Oreal bought it? If so, do you still use the products now? Any noticeable difference in quality or benefits?

Just cut off all my heat-damaged hair. I'm so happy! I feel so free! I can't remember the last time I was able to rock my curls. It's been too long.

I don't know if it was Devacurl, a stressful job, or hair rollers that were giving me hair loss. I dropped all 3, and my hair's not shedding like it used to.

I have really fine hair and have been using a mayo and egg mask very two weeks. That and using a some hair oil from CulturedTresses has really thickened my hair. Is every two weeks too much protein?

Anyone here can recommend a stylist that does box braids in NYC. The girl I typically go to moved out of state

Has anyone done a smoothing treatment? I have like 75% shrinkage and would love to elongate my curls a little and have a sill press / blow our last a little longer.

Any suggestions for growing 4C hair to be healthy and retain length? I just big chopped again due to some color damage and need advice for maintaining my hair while in quarantine.

I have been wanting to wear box braids to work for a while - medium/smedium size maybe. thoughts on professionalism? and how long is too long? TIA! 🤗

I did my own spring twists! I used the braided crochet method and they came out cute. I used that hair that errybody 'n em been hawking from Amazon