Ladies my hair is soooo badly heat damaged from the roots to the ends that i need a big chop :( ... im really self conscious about how i would look and men finding me attractive. Can someone offer any advice on how to style it?

Any people looking to date in Atlanta ? 40 F

Any 30+ female around? Would love to chat.

How often do you have sex? How long have you been together? I’m lucky if I get it 1x a week and I’m getting frustrated.

45 M In Bay Area CA . Any female 🐠 from Bay Area here?

I got reprimanded by a man for having an uninspired point of view of a conference call. He then gave me his inspired POV...which was exactly the same. When I pointed that out he said, “huh. Maybe.”

Do you think it is easier to overcome cheating in a relationship that has or does not have children involved? Listening to an interesting podcast and would love to know peoples take on the topic

Timma be high and eat hot dogs.

Agree or disagree: devil dogs is only good high. Dog Hause on the otherhand - low key date night and high

When do we think dating can go back to normal post-pandemic? Are we thinking mid 2021?

Any F 🐠 in DC interested in a Navy Yard drink? 36M

Hey, where do you guys go for fun after work or the weekends? I'm trying to socialize as a young professional but also have a good time 😅 Taking all suggestions.

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Anyone waiting for the 2nd season of indian matchmaking??

Looking to settle a debate between myself and a few friends - at what point is it appropriate to ask someone you’re dating if they’re also dating other people? Relatedly, do you have an obligation to tell whoever you’re dating that you’re dating other people?

Any single woman up for a drink this evening? 🥳

Anyone looking for a male flate mate in Pune please DM

After watching Arpana and her attitude in Indian Matchmaking, purani kahawaat yaad aagayi...
“ Na shakal na *^*^* Aur nakhre unchi unchi”

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

How do you feel when your guy repeatedly calls other women hot in front of you and says he’s allowed to appreciate beautiful things? I understand we will never stop finding others attractive but something about this feels disrespectful and I can’t place my finger on what that is.

Weekly reminder that I hate my job and I’m only still here for a green card

EYP fishes can you please comment on TSE culture ?

Hey everyone, Withum is still hiring entry-level staff accountants (audit and tax) with the start date of November 2023, experienced associates, senior associates, and more!
The firm is currently number 22 in the nation based on INSIDE Public Accounting. AMAZING culture, good wlb, and really nice people (at least in the nyc office). Please message me directly if you’re interested!

Hi fishes,
I'm a last year Btech IT student and looking for an internship and need help

Could you TA Acuityads and Score Media? TIA

Hi!

I recently did a job interview and I made it clear to the HR my expectation salary is 60k a year, non negotiable.
Today I got the job offer and they are offering me 54k. My current company is making me 50k with tons of benefits which is why I am asking for 60k.

Should I accept the offer or renegotiate?

Is there anyone here who works for the City of Mississauga? I have a question regarding their pre-interview assessment. Thank you.

What are the pros and cons for Tricare Reserve Select compared to health insurance from your civilian employer ( specifically in DMV area)?

How much do principals at IQVIA make?

If anyone is interested in or knows someone interested in practicing insurance coverage litigation (different than ID) in the Boston area, let me know. It’s good pay, reasonable hours, and interesting work.

Hi Fishes,

I got interviewed at infosys two days back.
When can I expect to hear back from them.
Also all the questions that were asked to me were written coding questions(Write block of code) none were verbal.I could write all answers but none was 100% correct.

At last I asked the interviewer about feedback as in where was I wrong. He said at couple of places and he explained me where was I wrong.

Do you all think I will be rejected?

Any of my good friends at Deloitte or EY have any security positions open? Extremely interested

Its my birthday. And nobody knows at my work I feel a bit awkward also first birthday I have to be all alone :/ . New city any ideas to celebrate myself ?:D

Hey! Can anyone recommend me a good facialist in downtown/brickell?

Any good ICOs cmg up?

Obligatory financial info post. 1) size of firm, 2) billable requirements, 3) salary, 4) bonus, 5) quality of life, 6) debt, and and 7) family/married/single. Go!

anyone wearing nosepin while going office ?

I'm a day late for Star Trek Day, but I love how all of the black women in the new series have natural hair. Even in the cartoons they do.

Hey🥺 i have curly hair but lately im not sure if it’s constant rain/humidity or something (I haven’t changed my routine at all) but in the last two and a half weeks the tips of my hair have been extremely dry and don’t even curl they’re just sort of waves at the moment...are they just like extremely dead ends or? Lmk if you have suggestions on how to fix my hair :(

I currently use a really great hair care line but I'm looking to switch to a Black-owned hair care line that includes a really great gel and deep conditioner (both necessities in my routine) as part of its product line.

Any recommendations?

My blowout shrinks so fast. I would like to use a flat iron to help, but I've never used one before. Would straightening it at 150-180° even do anything? I don't want heat damage, so I don't want to go above that.

Has anyone done a smoothing treatment? I have like 75% shrinkage and would love to elongate my curls a little and have a sill press / blow our last a little longer.

Has anybody used "JuicesNBerries" products yet? Or been to the "Her growing hands" salon? Reviews?

Anyone else have patches of hair that never want to grow? My upper left side in the back has always been way shorter than the rest of my hair

Just cut off all my heat-damaged hair. I'm so happy! I feel so free! I can't remember the last time I was able to rock my curls. It's been too long.

I just want to say that the Revair is life changing. Wash day uses to take me 4 hours. Now, the whole process is just under 2 🙌🏾

Anyone here can recommend a stylist that does box braids in NYC. The girl I typically go to moved out of state

Anyone use Carol's Daughter products before L'Oreal bought it? If so, do you still use the products now? Any noticeable difference in quality or benefits?

Looking for recommendations for a hooded dryer. Mine is about 15 years old and it’s served me well, but it’s time to upgrade. TIA

Has anyone on here suffered with scalp psoriasis and had success treating it? I've struggled with it for a few years, and I found that the last few months it has just gotten horrible. My scalp will start flaking the day after I wash it and I can visibly see large flakes in my hair - and I'm sure other people can too. It's getting embarassing and not sure what to do other than medication which I've heard can cause hair loss. I've tried ACV rinses and tea tree oil, but no real results.

I have really fine hair and have been using a mayo and egg mask very two weeks. That and using a some hair oil from CulturedTresses has really thickened my hair. Is every two weeks too much protein?

Is there really a significant difference between 4b and 4c hair 🤔

Hey ladies, I’ve been having some hair loss and shedding recently. Any advise on methods or products on how to get my thick tresses back 😩

I don't know if it was Devacurl, a stressful job, or hair rollers that were giving me hair loss. I dropped all 3, and my hair's not shedding like it used to.

Has anyone had crochet Senegalese Twists? If so do you know what brand of hair you bought?

I have been wanting to wear box braids to work for a while - medium/smedium size maybe. thoughts on professionalism? and how long is too long? TIA! 🤗

Any suggestions for growing 4C hair to be healthy and retain length? I just big chopped again due to some color damage and need advice for maintaining my hair while in quarantine.