Hi ladies! I’m in my early 30s and haven’t never been in a successful relationship but would really love to have kids. I’m considering doing it on my own but terrified by a few things- effort, work, Indian community...

Has anyone done something similar?

Anyone in the suburbs find it harder to make friends compared to the city? I don’t want to move back but I don’t know what else to do..

I ended my relationship of 6 years about 3 months ago bc he said he might regret not having kids later down the line. we were always on the fence but I’m leaning towards no. It hurts so much having to walk away from an otherwise perfect relationship. Wish this was easier…

Does anyone share the feeling of wanting more lawyer friends in their circle? Sometimes it’s nice to talk about anything besides the law and work; yet, other times, I crave talking to people who share similar experiences and can bounce case ideas and strategy, vent about opposing counsel and Judges, etc...you know, people who just “get it”.

Well guys, I got my heart broken - girlfriend broke up with me. Can’t focus or sleep at night. Don’t have many friends or family. What do I do?

Best Christmas things to do with a two-year-old?

Any thoughts on open relationships? Has anyone tried one? I’m curious. Kinda wanna explore that but unsure.

How is everyone taking time to indulge in Self Care now that most of us are either about to go back to work, or have started back up with students? I’m having mixed feelings of going back on my end and would love to hear how others are feeling too!

Anyone ever have success with requesting AA to transfer a spouse’s separate reservation to your reservation so SO can reap elite status benefit (ie, early boarding/seat selection)?

Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me right before we were supposed to leave the state and move in together. We broke up about 4 months ago. I couldn’t demonize her, so I’m still struggling with processing it and idk what to do. I’ve been looking into therapy, but I can only do online which leaves me hesitant. Any advice would be appreciated.

My baby slaps the boob while nursing the same way I used to slap the bag in uni

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

How do I deal with a parent who has become bitter and shrewd as they age? It’s exhausting and disheartening to be around because they used to be positive and happy. I’d like to help them be positive again but also want to give them space to feel how they feel. I just want them old version of my parent back 😞

My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now. We talk every single day online and recently I went to visit her for around a month. It was great and it seemed like the relationship was stronger than ever. But one week back after visiting her, I felt a strange detachment from her and our conversation topic got repetitive and stale quick. Any advice?

My family cat that I grew up with got put down yesterday and I have sobbing in between meetings. None of my friends are pet people so they don’t get the sadness. Just saying it somewhere to feel better.

How to overcome a breakup. I'm heartbroken 😭

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

Came here to say that I wish I could fully express to my non-parent colleagues how much their support has meant to me. I can cover for them when they have stuff so they can unplug, but I feel like they will never truly understand the gratitude when they offer to do a task for me when my kid is sick, etc. Any ideas on how to pay it forward?

I received an offer from a boutique litigation firm and a large law firm on the same day! I want to take a little time to consider both. What’s the typical time frame to respond?

Does anyone have any advice on how to shift from a specialist (paid advertising) to a more strategic (in digital marketing) role? I've been job searching for a couple of weeks and would love to be considered for roles outside paid advertising but it seems to be extra challenging this time of the year.

Anyone know the cheapest way to subscribe to WSJ? You could redeem airlines miles in the past for a subscription but they stopped that a while ago I think. Thanks in advance!

What fintech sales (company, product, etc) would be a good fit for someone looking to transition from commercial banking?

Anyone know how to deal with sleep problems? I find myself waking up in the middle of the night and staying up for a few hours because I can’t sleep. When I do eventually sleep I get like an hour or 2 before work which leaves me tired and grumpy.

Does anyone have motivating/good sales books to recommend?

Have you felt like the industry (including job searching) left you contempt or jaded to the point, you’ve started turning into a nihilist?

Hello folks,
Please help me with likes for direct message

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Hi fishes. I have an offer from BofA for senior analyst (Data Science). The interviewer said I'll be working on marketing analytics. Can any existing data science fishes in BofA tell me what to expect in in terms of learning and working on ML? 3Yoe Data Scientist.

Anyone looking for housing on the west side? I have a friend renting a house & she’s looking for a roommate (female) in WeHo. DM me for details if interested, thanks

I want to buy my current rental house from my landlord (she wants to sell) and we both want to not use a real estate agent and split the savings in commissions between us.

Does anyone know how much a real estate attorney might charge for helping us with a very standard sales contract in California. Or maybe an agent/broker ago would just handle the contract for a flat fee.

I want to know how UBS (UK) reach out to you for interview purposes I mean through a phone call or over the email.

Anyone at Motorola able to provide a referral?

NYC based Managing Director, salary range?

Hi,

I have 2 yoe. My current CTC is 5.76. and in hand 5.61.

I am looking for a company where I get decent work life balance and a good hike. Can you suggest me an organisation for the same.

How is the cigna company guys in terms of work life balance?

AE: I need to take off this afternoon to the attend my grandmother’s funeral.
Owner: Why? She’ll be dead tomorrow too.

Started Keto 40 days ago and jut broke the 20lb marker! Averaging 3.3 lbs/week, ~.55/day through keto and IF. Where's everyone else on their journey??

Hey everyone, I'm in the process of searching for a new sales or account management role particularly focused on mid-size or enterprise B2B sales positions and I’m also open to relocating. My back ground includes; 3+ years of quota carrying experience with a focus on consultative/ solution-based enterprise sales.

If anyone is currently hiring for a position within their company or is able to offer a referral. I would appreciate any help!

How do you all feel about D&I Reports? Do you think they’re still valuable and a stand-alone report or part of an integrated corporate message?

Almost every guy I get to know wants a Disha Patani.. The struggle is real.

Hey, any one here in Toronto? Would love to catch up

Anyone in Miami? I’m moving there next month and don’t know anyone there.

Sorry if this is slightly off topic. Do we have any organizations similar to Latinas in Tech? My friend recently got a job through her connections there and I am curious if there is a similar org for desi/brown women. Would love to hear your thoughts!!

Hi ladies, I’m 23 and I want to move out from my parents’ house this year. Any suggestions on locations to look into? I want somewhere that’s diverse, has good access to nature, decent dating scene, reasonable cost of living etc.

Hi! Anyone here in Miami? Just moved here recently and would love to make new friends. :)

This group is definitely what I needed. Thanks 💕

Any ladies close to northern jersey? I moved here in the middle of the pandemic and would love to have some gal pals to hang out with once fully vaccinated :)
I’m 28 if that matters.

Ladies, 👋. I’m hoping this is a start to a great network. As a single Desi woman in my 30s, I’m struggling in some spheres of life and I see that other great women are too. I see women put up with bad colleagues/jobs and toxic partners/family because we all are conscientious. I hope we tap into strength and make some meaningful connections and friends here. Totally open to local meet-ups/virtual meets to work on a better us! Open to expanding to non-fishbowl users as well if anyone interested

Does anyone have an opinion on SF/Mountainview vs NY/Manhattan?

Hey guys,

This is an embarassing question to ask but every time I go on a date, guys keep pestering me how am I single and 34. I am too exhausted to answer it.

I know the stereotype is that something is wrong with us. I have days where I can't keep my chin up anymore

Any other ladies get so frustrated by forced family set ups? I swear I only hear from my extended family when it’s about set ups and my marriage status. And usually it’s just them praising the guy and telling me to make it work since I’m getting old (early 30s) 🤦🏽‍♀️

Anyone here from Orlando, Florida? Looking to meet and grow my network be friends with people from my community. I’m 23 yrs old. I don’t mind if you’re younger or older (preferred)

Will there ever be a day that brown women aren’t judged by their single/married status?

need advice.

I have been working in an interim role as a portfolio manager. I was promised that the role would be mine. However, after doing the job for 2 months, I have been advised that we might not get the funding for the role and I might not get the raise and the title but my responsibilities will be the same.

Its a political minefield.

How should I back out elegantly that I need to be compensated fairly and competitively from this mess without burning any bridges

My complexion and under eyes get very pigmented when I don’t sleep well. I have a wedding to go to in a few weeks and I know I should sleep more to look ok but I don’t. Any tips on looking healthy and getting some glow for brown skin? I used to get facials pre covid but can’t anymore.