Hi parents! I'm 31 and a senior analyst, can't help to feel "behind", I've been on mat leave for a year and now pregnant again so will be out of another 6 months at least (very happy with my pregnancy btw!!) But still can't really shake off the feeling that I'm too old to be a senior and should've been a manager by now. Anyone going through the same thing?

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Yeah being on maternity leave for a year and a half straight will definitely push back any career advancement. I could see how you feel behind, I would too, but it also depends on when you started your career.

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