How did you get better at accepting critiques and redlines? I’m years into this and still bristle when I get feedback on drafts or miss what the partner wanted.

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Being an English major helped. Your writing is not you. It’s your work product. It will never be perfect no matter how long you spend on it, only as good as can be done in the time allotted.

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Humility.

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For better or worse but the first civil law firm I worked at after law school (a toxic place) beat any concern about redlines out of me. I would get so many no matter how hard I tried so I stopped beating myself up. Now they don’t bother me because a lot of it is the partners writing style rather than correcting the substance. I also look at writing product as a team effort.

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I second this. I struggled with redlines for my first 5 years of practice until I went to a firm where I was abused. Redlines were the least of my worries so now I don’t care! I see it more as collaboration.

Agreed you have to separate yourself from your work product a bit. That said, if they’re substantive, take them as an opportunity to learn something new. If they’re stylistic, roll your eyes but remember this partner’s style for next time (or just roll eyes if from the other side). If they’re correcting your mistakes/typos, rap yourself on the knuckles with a ruler (jk! just try to proofread better next time).

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Treat it as a coach session

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Become the partner.

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Honestly, this. I just worked long enough that I no longer have to accept redlines I don’t like.

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Click “accept all” and don’t take it personally just imagine it was an AI review, and know that editing never will be complete or perfect. Just focus on the actual substantive issues and ignore any style/preference comments.

To A2’s point having a toxic firm beat you into not caring definitely helps but is not advised.

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Good grief, do not hit accept all and not think about it unless you have no interest in your career or the person correcting is a complete idiot (happens once in a blue moon).

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Separate it between things you did wrong and personal preference of the senior lawyer. When I discuss redlines with my team I always tease out the difference.

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(1) Start with the expectation that there will always be comments—both substantive and stylistic—when you send a doc to a senior lawyer for review. It’s not personal. (2) Try to care 20% less.

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Same

I used to feel the same way until I realized that one partner would sometimes literally redline and and remove the same or similar sentences between drafts. Made me realize the redlines weren’t ever personal and just all part of our collaborative writing process haha.

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