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Protect your energy and enjoy the luxury of sleeping when you can. A year from now, you'll see why sleeping feels like a luxury. First trimester is when vital baby organs are forming, and that takes a big toll on energy levels. As for the near future, I would recommend RSVPing for things that happen on the weekend so you can rest during the day or before an event. You're likely to feel more energized after a few weeks of sheer exhaustion and/or in second trimester, so hang in there!
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Thank you!!
The last part of your last statement is pretty much the answer to your question. 😊 if spending free time relaxing on the couch is what makes you feel good right now then that is what you should do. Sometimes that first trimester exhaustion wanes by the second and you’ll be feeling a little more like yourself. That’s the time for being social. Don’t feel bad about bowing out of events to prioritize you or your sleep. Growing a human is serious business.
Just slow down and conserve your energy. Focus on the baby. Social life can wait but these 9 months are extremely critical and a luxury before you are deep into it. Seems like this is your first one so take my advice and channel all your energy towards yourself and the baby
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Thank you! It is my first child and I’m definitely starting to see that I can’t show up the same way I used, and I have to be okay with that.
You can still show up how you used to, just not in this exact moment. First tri will pass and you’ll be back at it!
I didn’t. lol. I skipped everything bc I felt so awful. People get it, especially close friends. Protect your energy for the most important stuff