How do you motivate and support male colleagues who need their hands held constantly?

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This is hard for me because I'm a go-getter by nature. But I try to just be encouraging and helpful wherever I can, show empathy, make suggestions for improvement, etc.

Just the way I would a woman or anyone else. I try to be as supportive as I can and help them in the way that best helps them.

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