How does taking a mental health absence impact your career? I work for a large firm and need to take some time for my mental wellbeing but I'm worried my career will be impacted or I'll be weeded out at my firm. I don't want to be seen as weak but I feel like I'll have a complete breakdown if I don't do something.

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Say family emergency to current firm and to any places you interview in the future. Go take care of yourself friend. Seriously.

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Your health is all you have, who cares about the firm.

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You aren’t saving lives, and don’t ruin yours.

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Depends on how long you'll be out for, but other than timing (e.g. if you take 6 months off right before evaluations in a promo year), I don't think it'll matter much. At worst, it may delay the promotion slightly but your career is a marathon and it's not worth your well-being. Mental health challenges can qualify as a disability so look into FMLA, and any company/state benefits (e.g. short term disability). I took over a year off to take care of my mental health and it was worth it.

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Do I need to get a doctors note or anything, I’m under the same boat and my mental is really going down, but I’m afraid that mental health isn’t a good enough reason on their side

I took 2 months off and it all worked out

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