How’s wedding planning going for everyone? 😅

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OP I am not going to lie I have been putting it off and my wedding is in six months. I am so overwhelmed with work and everything else that it just hasn't been a priority for me. I am planning to use this weekend coming up to get a big chunk of things done and see where everything is at. How is it going for you?

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I just got engaged this year but aiming for a wedding next year but I’m just so overwhelmed and stressed with the planning that I haven’t even picked a venue or date. 😭

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Let’s just say I’m so thankful for a two year engagement 😩😩 wedding date is July 2025.

We took 6 months to enjoy the engagement bliss and reign in family expectations, then it took us almost 6 months to find a venue that was beautiful AND in our budget 😅 so I’m finally in full planning mode: booked a photographer, sending out save the dates tonight.

Honestly, I’m so tired and mentally frazzled after work that I can only get 1 MAYBE 2 big items done month at my current pace.

Trying to find a florist right now and it’s diabolical how expensive it is 😭 Trying to find a wedding dress and every store nearby has a waitlist for an appointment, which I didn’t know was a thing?! 😵‍💫

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We literally planned to elope in Hawaii in February and our wedding planner turned out to be nightmare! LOL so we figured if we have to deal with bullshit logistics we might as well have a big ole party 😂

Let me know if you need any advice, if you need to vent etc!

Just hit my one year anniversary, and I was having such flashbacks over the past month of all of the planning stress from last year. It’s stressful. I wouldn’t want to do it again (and obviously don’t plan to), but the wedding was amazing. Hang in there!

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Just 😆. But seriously though: 🥺

Definitely definitely hire a good wedding planner! Helped me a ton with planning my wedding while working

Just finally signed our wedding venue contract for Nov 2025! It’s all byob catering and drinks and stuff so now I’m just stressed about planning everything else lol

Have everything booked for August 2025, but we also have a planner and effectively no budget 😅

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