I am going weekday sober for good. Wish me luck!

Mid-40s and can never stop cold turkey.

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Great job! I know a lot of teachers drink a lot. I know that’s a stereotype, but I’m a teacher and I used to drink a lot too. It’s better now that I don’t.

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Weekday sober? What could go wrong?

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I couldn't stop cold turkey either, so I asked for help.

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Positive impact on your mental health and organs. Make sure you don’t binge on wknd…

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I was a weekend warrior all the way to the bitter end. When I finally knew I needed to get help I was binge drinking every other weekend because it took most of 2 weeks for my brain to convince me "it wasn't that bad." I wish you the best, I personally never could figure out how to control AND enjoy my drinking.

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