What are some hot and cold drinks to replace alcohol? I like hard cider with Fireball, cabernet, chardonay, and craft beers but want to treat myself after a hard day with something less destructive.

If you submitted an H1-B application for this year's lottery, does it remain active through all subsequent lotteries this year? Specifically, does the submission of an I-485 under the family-based green card process lead the H1-B application to be withdrawn / not considered for any lotteries after the I-485 receipt date? Thanks!

Hi ladies! Looking for insights on what’s it’s like working as an associate of some firms. Anyone here has worked/works at Fox Rothschild or McDermott and can give me some insights as to firm culture? Partners? Work life balance ? Billable requirements etc?

Hi any openings for procurement in noida or gurgaon location

Hello Everyone,

Greetings of the day !! I am looking for job change.

l am an Hadoop Administrator , having 5 years of experience and looking for openings in Hadoop admin or Bigdata admin field.

Please Help , if you have any opening DM me.

Does anyone know if there’s a way to stop grocery stores and credit card companies from sending me spam mail? I just can’t believe how much paper and money is still wasted on this junk and I didn’t even ask for it.

How unhappy do you have to be before you start looking for another job?
What are the key factors that make you say to yourself “Time to leave!”?

Anyone else having trouble staying focused while working from home? I’m in a tiny apartment in NYC and with my husband and I both being here 24/7 I am feeling very trapped and never get any meaningful alone time, which I need. He normally travels a bit for work, so this is really different for us. My focus is shot, I’m terrified of getting laid off and yet am having trouble motivating myself. Any advice? Anxiety through the roof too.

I’m Leaving my job after 3 months for a dream opportunity that circled back to me. Any advice for how to tell my boss tomorrow virtually? I work in accounting at a tech company. I’m joining a non-tech company (and non-accounting role). I also have the option to not say anything for another month but figured it’s better to say something early on vs. when I fully trained

How can I grow a thicker skin? I hate how easily I cry when I'm frustrated or embarrassed

I’m considering an application for Deloitte Digital in Dubai potentially aligning to financial services. Can anyone tell me what’s it’s like over there?

I’m so frustrated with my current job. I’ve been here for 4 years and am one of my company’s “oldest” employees. My workload was previously handled by 2-3 people, but now it’s just me and upper management is refusing to hire anyone to help me and hasn’t given me a raise for the increased workload. The icing on the cake was yesterday when I found out they snubbed me for a holiday bonus, but gave one out to almost everyone else. I cannot wait until a find a new job.

What side project are you currently working on?

Roommate fled to parents and is trying to argue he shouldn’t have to pay utilities

High volume recruiting - how are you using Indeed? Posting directly to the site? Using campaigns linked to your ATS, if so what ATS? I always feel as if indeed never works great to provide the right candidate quality and numbers for the price. I’d love to hear some strategies! TIA

Just found out my husband is being transferred to the Chicago area in about two months, I know finding a new job mid-school year will be tough but if anyone has any leads on a secondary opening please share!

Are there any relators on here? Would love to connect if you are, as I am looking to possibly get into the field and would love some advice.

I opened GCP account for the free trial but i forgot to unsubscribe. Now I'm receiving mail to pay the balance. If i don't pay, what will happen???

hi folks
any idea what questions they are asking in interview.
I am having Interview tomorrow for SA2 Assurance.

Starting my sober journey today. Glad to have found this community. Honestly hopeful but also scared.

I’ve managed well during all of this and am approaching my first full year of sobriety. But the thoughts of “I want to get slammed at a bar when this is over” are starting.

Just wanted to post an update. 68 weeks ago I posted about my drinking problems. It was bad. It’s been 8 months now without a single drink. I still can’t believe it. I still miss drinking. I’ve sat with coworkers and watched them drink. It’s not nearly as fun, but I am so thankful each morning I can hold my head up high. Will I drink again? I only said I would quit for 60 days. Can I have a beer? Some wine? A fine bourbon? I sometimes crave it. I guess there is the answer! You can all do this!

Anyone have experience with high range drink driving offences? How has it impacted your career?

I relapsed one week ago and feel awful about myself. I’m having trouble finding motivation and strength to get sober again now

My husband is addicted to alcohol.. For those who are sober/recovering, what worked for you?! What can I do to help him?!

Was not gambling for 6 months and then blew up a few thousands last night. Fighting the urge not to go back.

Is having one drink a day bad? Does that make me an addict?

Possible to be sober as a new consultant? Feel constant pressure from other colleagues to drink and feel like it will be an uphill battle to climb the ranks sober. Can anyone share their story of getting/ being sober early in their career?

What's the best way to be supportive of a partner who struggles with addictive tendencies?

Have you ever slipped and accidentally identified as an alcoholic when doing team introductions?

Feeling so frustrated and scared. I am trying my hardest to be loving to my brother who is addicted to many things. My family has been encouraging him for years to get real help. He’s finally semi-agreed to go to a detox facility and then rehab. However, those are far away from where we all live now. My 70+ dad wants to fly with my brother there to make sure he goes. I understand, but also...there’s a freaking pandemic going on with a virus targeting older people. Cont’d...

Does anyone know of a great rehab place in Arizona? I’m in a bad way

Quit the booze back in September. It mostly hasn't been that hard but I can't get a grip on my emotions this week. Feeling overwhelming sadness for no real reason. (Cont)

Heard this at an AA meeting tonight and wanted to share:
“You’re either working on your recovery, or you’re working on your relapse.”

What do you do to stop depression or negative thoughts?

Just did an export of my spending for the year to do a full breakdown. I spent almost $2k on liquor in the 6 months before I went into treatment:

February: $553.25
March: $418.04
April: $14.75
May: $150.38
June: $92.24
July: $283.16
August: $387.70

Total: $1,899.52

That amount comes out to 40 handles, but it’s probably about 2x since this doesn’t include what I bought with cash or drank with others paying.

Im shocked. But most importantly I’m grateful to be sober today. Keep working it gang!

Is everyone on here sober from (mostly) everything? Do you sometimes partake in other vices? For me, it’s smoking herb 1-2x/week. Used to be way worse (❄️⛷💊🥃) and that’s how/why I justify it.