I am under a very toxic boss. She set out to fire me this quarter. I am PM in a tech company and worked hard to get here. Now she has been targeting me to fire. I am applying outside for last 3months, not even a call for PM positions. Going back to SDE positions. Got a position in a slow company through friend with 0stress but pay is 60k less. Going from 170k+RSU to 120k as a developer but stable and 0stress. Should I take it? Worried I am going backwards in my career. But can’t afford no job.

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If the stress is too much, do it as long as you can afford to lose that much income. It may be a sign to step back and enjoy life as well!

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Take the position for now to leave the toxic situation. You can work there for a bit and then transition elsewhere when you’re ready

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I would. Your sanity is worth the money

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Friend is asking to stay at least couple years if I take that job, otherwise he might have issues to refer anyone there in future. So I will be locked there at least for couple years don’t know market recovers during that time anyway

Your friend is not living your life. You can start the job with the intention of staying a few years, but if a great position comes along, you need to take care of yourself. You shouldn’t have to stay in a less than great job as a favor to your friend,

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