I feel stuck. This job is hard. Feels like lots of people piling on while I’m away from home and my SO. It would be nice to feel more supported and have less toxic clients.

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Would you rather not have a job? Look below you and see the number of people who’d be dying to be at your position. Toxic is only as bad as you let it affect you. Dissociate - it’s just a job and do the best you can.

And if people are piling on, think of ways to push back. It’s not easy but you get better at it once you start

Fair enough. That is the thing I think about. I love aspects of this job. There’s one client who has it out for me and I’ve never seen someone so toxic in my entire career. I can’t believe they haven’t fired her yet.

People don’t have the right to treat you badly. If you feel that you are not respected, let your manager, coach, or HR know. Disagree with M1’s response - trading your self-worth just for a paycheck makes you feel worse, not better.

Related Posts

Hello All

How's job security, work life balance, work pressure, work environment & Salesforce testing projects at Brillio?

like

Hello Guys

YOE - 16
CTC-19.6 LPA (was in UK for 5yrs), hence Indian CTC did not grow
Skill - IT Security Consultant (AWS Security, CISSP certified)

Currently in negotiation with Wipro, Deloitte and Crompton
All 3 have given a strict budget of 30-31LPA

I need help on 2 things
-Which co. has better growth in term of WLB, Skills, salary hike?
-As per my exp., what should be the best negotiation?

Thanks

like

Hi,

Anyone can provide review about Springer Nature Technology and Publishing Solution, Pune?

Company culture? Year to year hike? Work life balance?

like

Which work-paper is "your baby"

like

Hi Fishes,

How is WLB in RBS account in Mphasis, can qnine share some input.

like

Does anyone have thoughts on being roommates with someone who is recruiting for the same post-MBA gig as you (IB/MBB)? Should you try to get someone going for the same thing/is it advantageous as you grind through recruiting together or does it not really matter?

like

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

likefunny

Anyone work in NY state most specifically Jefferson County? I have a Q re: divorce case, but not sure if I can even private message on this thing.

like

Any one know about Emirates NBD client in Virtusa . How is WLB & JOB security.

like

Best 3 row SUV for a suburban mom? Want to avoid the minivan and huge stuff like Chevy Suburban but would like to have the ability to drive my parents even with my 2 car seats installed and still have some cargo space.

like

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

like

Any recommendation for a divorce lawyer? Anyone experience with a divorce. 😔 can’t believe marriage is failing after all these years

like

Is it ok to look for one night stands while on road and not feel guilty.. does it mean I dont love my girlfriend?

Can someone please tell me how the work life balance in Nielseniq ?

like

Hi! Have any here gone the natural cycle IVF route? What was your experience like? Did you have success in growing your family this way? Would you recommend it to others?

like

Has anyone experienced your spouse/ex turning your kids against you? My toddler son is aggressive towards me and uses words not normal for toddler vocabulary. MIL also adding fuel to the fire.

So physically and mentally tired, I don't know how long I can keep up with work anymore. Told my senior management that I'm burning out, only to be blessed with another secondment. I now have two going at the same time, plus other client work, new business work, and managing scroundels.

like

Hi All, I am Java developer having 7 yoe. Recently I gave interview for this Landmark group

Is
Landmark Group or @Landmark digital a product based company?

How good is job security? How good is work life balance?

I am looking for permanent opportunity where I can stay for longer duration. Is this the right company?

How are hikes in this company?

like

Hi,

I just got an offer from Landmark Group - DLL DATALABS.

Any One here can please throw some light about the Company Internal Environment, Work life balance, work culture, Growth, Appraisals % Average, Learning opportunities etc.

This will really help

like

More Posts

Hello guys!! I hope you all are doing really well. I recently received a job offer from Nagarro - Senior Engineer , 12 lpa which includes 60k allocation bonus. I have 3 YOE . Could you guys please help me out :
1. How is the work life balance in Nagarro?
2. I am settled in Pune but my offer says Gurgaon location. Can this be a problem once I join?
3. 11 lpa +40k (pf&gratuity) is there. what will be my take home pay?
4. What all items are there in the joining kit?

Thanks in advance

like
likehelpful
like

Hey can anyone shed light on the Technical Accounting Consulting group at RSM compared to Big 4 (EY FAAS) with regards to work life balance / middle market client demands / flexibility?

likehelpful

Hello fishes,i have two offers, one is from Cognizant- Senior Associate for 22LPA(fixed) and EY GDS - Assurance, Technical Lead (rank 42) for (23 Lpa + 10% Variable). Which one should I choose? Expecting better Work life balance is priority. I'm into .Net full stack development. (6 yoe). Please help who knows about EY Gds bangalore and CTS Coimbatore. Cognizant

Hi all, I'm an experienced Scrum Master and Agile Coach. Can someone please refer me to a job posting? I can share the job ID. It would be very helpful. Thanks!

Anyone have the newer, smaller Cartier JUC? If so, is it a practical don’t take off/wear it everyday bracelet? Would it work to stack with the Love (if you have it)? Thank you in advice for any advice. :)

like
likefunny
like

Which laptop model do we receive at KGS?

like

Can anybody tell me about this independence rule in KGS. Does my spouse also has to dispose off his stocks listed in restricted entry...I joined as Manager in advisory ..

like

Opening in Deloitte India. DM for referral

like

I heard they are only taking 60 risk assurance people for the digital accelerator program...that isn’t a lot at all!

Oh, hello team members!!

Post Photo
likefunny

Do you find yourself thinking about ways to improve your lessons as you experience life? I’m on vacation for the first time in 10 years and I keep asking myself “wow, what kind of technology is that?” And “How can I integrate that in my Computer Technology class?”

like

Why so many people are leaving EY GDS?

like
like

Does anyone have strong rationale for why it seem like big brands hardly ever include trademark or register symbols on their logo anymore? When I was coming up as a designer trademarking the logo was a very important step in branding.

like

Cant get over the new leaves in my Thai Constellation.

Post Photo
likeuplifting

Anyone interested in brunch this weekend? Would be nice to get a small group together

Additional Posts in Depression/Anxiety Talk

Does anyone’s face freeze up when you start talking during a presentation? Idk if it’s my anxiety acting up physically or not. Mentally I dont feel that nervous, but my body tenses up physically.

Has anyone experienced difficulties with speech/thinking through taking anti-depressants or from suffering with long term depression? I first started noticing difficulties in articulating my thoughts at university and my career in consulting has only made this more prominent. I feel embarrassed, really depressed and incompetent because of this. This is one of the greatest anxieties I have regarding my performance and I find it is really effecting my development.

like

About month ago I was diagnosed with coronary artery disease (CAD) and had to go through cardiac catheterization to get a stent.
I am in mid 30s and it's unbelievable that i have got this. Have been quite down mentally for last few weeks, and don't think if I can sustain the consulting life anymore.
I am working hard to stop the progression of disease and potentially reverse it. Hope things work out.

likeupliftinghelpful

I am so tired of it all. I’ve barely eaten in the last 3 days and had to take a painkiller last night to fall asleep. I’m so overworked and I constantly feel like a piece of sh*t. I don’t even have the energy to move right now and feel like I will faint any minute.

like

Has anyone here filed for short term disability while for anxiety and depression? If so, what was the process like?

like

Anyone know of good therapists/counselors in San Francisco? Would love any pointers, not really sure how to start finding a “good therapist"

like

I’m sitting in a partner’s office on a Saturday night realizing this will never be mine. I’ll never have people sitting in my office saying I’m this person. Feels like I just topped out on life. Down.

I was just laid off due to COVID. Felt invincible when the crisis began but now feel lost as if my career was ripped out with the tide. Slowly gaining motivation to get back on top

like

Is anyone utterly confused about what they want to do long-term?

like

sigh* last week Saturday my s/o & I broke up after our 3 year relationship. & it really been affecting me negatively — not eating, autopilot mode, self isolation & diving deep into work. Today I decided to go outside, where I picked up some food to go and went to an outdoor movie by myself; where I had the realization I just really enjoy being by myself. Idk, maybe I’m just better off single after so many failed relationships/am I being dramatic? but anyone else has given up on love?

like

Is anybody diagnosed with adult ADHD? Did you know before joining the firm? How does it affect your work? How do you deal with it?

My mood has been fluctuating so much lately. Some days (yesterday) I wake up feeling invincible and some days (today) want to hide myself the rest of the world and feel like nothing will ever get better. I’m trying to push myself to make plans with other ppl and am really self-conscious about it cuz I don’t want ppl to see me in low spirit.. any ideas on how to fix that?

like

Coming up in 2 years with my girlfriend and worried I am beginning to get the feelings I started to feel prior to breaking up with my last girlfriend. I never felt before the way I felt about this

Is it professional to inform your team/supervior that you have weekly appointments and need to head OOO early on a specific day? I have psy appts. now and already cancelled the previous cont'd below..

like

I’ve been working on making small conversations to strangers as a way to manage my social anxiety and to try to meet people the old-fashioned way, but it’s so nerve-racking. Any tips?

like

My wife’s been on Lexapro for a year. She seems to have become almost robotic, cold, not like she was before. She needs it for anxiety and that’s a lot better, but I don’t see as much emotion in her. Has anyone else experienced this?

like

How long should it take a company to check references? It's been 2weeks since I've provided this info, I'm anxious everyday. Assume I did not get the position & move on? Losing hope- really need this.

like

I can’t get over how meaningless my life is. I feel stuck in a dark tunnel with no light at the end. I don’t know what I’m doing in life. It’s overwhelming and makes me cry over every little thing. Is it too much to ask for me to just be happy in life? I’m 26 but I feel like this is all life has to offer.

like

I tried so hard today to finish all my errands and read and even worked out. And I'm taking medication and keeping my diet healthy. But today I realized I don't have anyone to talk to anymore when this image of me hanging keep popping up in my head. I couldn't even tell my psychiatrist. I'm searching for places that can handle my weight. I even cried full on which has not been happening since I started taking medication for depression. Is this anxiety? Or my brain is just ready let go finally.

like

Do you share your struggles of depression and/or anxiety with your parents/family? Especially when not living with them.
Should I be? It's a lot of effort to sound ... happy or normal on the phone. But don't want to make them worry either.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal