I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

My husband is pushing for us to get pregnant, but I'm not sure if I'm willing to sacrifice my career/outsource much of "raising a child." More power to those of you that juggle it all.

Relocating to bangalore to join Wells Fargo (Sarjapur). Please suggest a place which is peaceful to live with family. Thanks

Anybody still have children going to private school in person. Our 5 yo is in a Montessary where they had 3-4 COVID cases reported over the weekend. They are still keeping it open for now. We are wondering if we should send our kid. What are other parents doing?

What’s something your clients wish they would have known before filing for divorce?

Anyone in California familiar with SB 9 and 10. Curious if you lot split a single family home that is currently zone multi-family as when I was reading the bill it said it was for single family. Just wondering if anyone might have any insights from their research. Thanks!

How does one balance becoming successful and wealthy but not ruining your kids who then become spoiled and don’t have to work for anything?

How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

This is a story of my friend i met a month back. He is in mid 30’s. According to him, Marriage is becoming so difficult these days. He had multiple meetings via matrimonial sites. Salary, big home, job profile, joint vs nuclear family, homely vs career oriented, no cooking like ever, NRI demand, god knows how many more reasons of mismatch he faced.
He said he had a relationship earlier which didn’t worked out. He was literally emotional and so misses her now. She got married couple of years back

Wife has domestic charges and now wants me to leave the home? Have a new project starting up soon. Wife wants to mediate separation agreement soon until her criminal case is resolved. Advice?

How do you get over someone?

Off topic
I'm 25 m from Rajasthan
My CCTC is 12.5 I'm getting an offer of 20 in banglore. But my dad doesn't want me to relocate, he says you should now settle down. Try for govt jobs private job bakwas h, otherwise find a job nearby.
I told him i have no interest in gov jobs to which he said disgustingly " interest nhi h baad m yaad krega " this sentence broke my heart,i dnt want to be disrespectful, but i feel guilty now as if I've let him down
Dnt knw Wht to do now I'm clueless

Anyone has an alternative to an Au Pair. Wife and I were looking forward to host an au pair but can’t go through the official program since we are not permanent residents yet. Anyone has an alternative besides traditional daycare? Maybe a friend of a friend? I am in NJ. Any ideas welcomed and needed!

My husband and I are going through our 2nd cycle. He initially asked me to allow his sister to administer my injections because she’s a nurse and I refused. I don’t like depending on people when I am capable of doing things myself. This is taking an emotional toll on me already, but I don’t want him to feel like I’m refusing his help and excluding him from the process, because I won’t take his suggestion. How do I get him to understand?

Guys, this busy season is terrible - I miss my kid so much during the day. Also I feel like I am disappointing everyone at work, my spouse, my kid. There is not enough hour in a day

Is it odd that I don't tell my siblings and siblings in-law happy wedding anniversary? Feels like one of those things that is their thing. Or am I wrong here?

Said goodbye to a 3 year old today. I don't know where to start

What’s a good age to show a kid Rocky? I feel like my 4 year old (turning 5 next week) would love Rocky III and Rocky IV, but I think the dialogue in I & II would just go over the head. I think it’s important to view these movies in the original order and I just can’t wait to share the saga of Rocky Balboa with my kid!

OT but my SIL is 52 and single (engaged once but broke it off, ultimately never married). She is in the tristate area. I really want to buy her matchmaking services for her upcoming birthday but just saw how crazy expensive the fees are to work with one. Does anyone have any recommendations, or any other ways I can help her? I really want to be able to. Any stories of women here finding love in their 50s? It seems like it's easier to do once you've been married before but im not sure why. TIA

After a 2 years of being her caretaker, my partner's mom recently lost her battle with cancer. A group of us want to get him a gift, but everything seems too personal/not personal enough. Suggestions?

I’m breaking up with my GF of 3 years today.. going to be a tough one.

Its been a month i have been in wipro and allocated to an indian client in APMEA. In future will there be any chance to move to america or america2 in wipro as i have onsite aspirations

Avg pay for Customer Service Manager/Director in the US?

McKinsey: what is internal perception/reputation of your different practices? For instance, corporate finance practice is the most sought after but yields ~80 hour weeks, M&S practice is the most collegial, etc.

Although I’m not even sure whether those are ways in which practices are internally perceived/discussed, I’m still curious!

How long as a PM and product leader until one can reasonably consider joining a VC or Private Equity firm?

Anyone joining the BCG case prep webinar tonight? Is it a live video conference where you can ask questions?

Does anyone have an idea on what salary should be expected when applying to a major biotech company (GSK, Novartis, J&J, AbbVie etc...) as an entry level (3 years experience) Pharmacology & Toxicology master degree with an emphasis in Drug Discovery and Development with technical expertise in electrophysiology/neuroscience domain (several published papers on sodium channels) ?

Hi Fishes ,

I have offer from Tata elxsi for 16 lpa + 1.5 l joining bonus. But joining bonus did not come in offer letter but only by mail. I am selected for specialist role.but did not get proper JD. Can I trust them on joining bonus

Heli sharks ,

What is the avg CTC for senior manager role in asset management BU for Mumbai location?
How much technical work a senior manager get to do ?

Hey can you list me some major e-commerce channels to sell a product. I know Amazon and similar, looking for other

How much should a Development
Engineer I working at a Hospital in
Boston getting paid? Mainly 3D
printing and design develop organic
trainers/devices for clinicians. Maybe
about 2 YOE with a BS in Mechanical
Engineering degree.

I joined TCS on 19th October. My BGC failed and I will have to resign. Does the company pay salary for the days worked in this scenario? I am working for an american client.

What did you say when someone asks you why you want to leave your current position?

Has anyone taken Spark Hire for the Portfolio Associate role at @PIMCO?

Is it a red flag to not use your current employer as a reference or would this not be noticed? I have other references I want to use who I think can better attest to my skills for the job but don’t want it to raise any questions.

What is a current engineering field that might become outdated in the near future?

How do you break the habit of procrastination?

I used to be so devoted to my academics that I kind of forgot to make some close friends. How do you reignite your social life after college?

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

What's a guilty pleasure you indulge in at work?

Do you think jobs should have a GPA requirement for recent grads?

Is it possible to find engineering side work?
I’m a civil/environmental engineer that works for local government. Is like to work on design projects on the side. I’ve heard the private sector is booming. Lots of companies are offering remote work. Are there any companies hiring part time?

I keep fighting with the product managers on my team, who keep assigning me new features to build without checking first if I had the bandwidth for it. How do I communicate this politely?

Is there anything that you've created that you now use on a daily basis?

In my room with all my computers, the heat this year is killing me slowly. I'm sweating all day long, even with the AC on.

Any advice for a young engineer trying to land their very first job out of college?

Want to know abbvie work life balance at Abbvie, Worcester, MA site?

I'm an engineer and I love building things but based on what I've seen about Gen Z, I think I'm going to raise my kids in a less modern style. No TV, no internet, at least until a certain age.

How does a sole engineer at a company go about getting management to actually care how production machines run? I’m the only mechanical engineer at my company dealing with a half dozen cranky production managers who think that I can “work my magic” on a machine. It’s not magic, just ignorance about the machine actually works. How to I get a manager to stop caring about the end product long enough for me to actually teach them about their own machine?

Do you work alone or with a team?

What’s something you learned about engineering only after you got your first job in the industry?

What is the most useful technical or soft skills for any mechanical engineer to have where you work? I’m curious to know what really matters for everyone and what makes a big impact on the team and business.

Specifics if you can; CAD tools, simulation, CAD speed or proficiency, industry or standards knowledge, GD&T, certifications, Microsoft Excel, presentation skills, technical writing, project management, self organization, great communication, teaching ability, relationship building, etc.