I had a good first date after months of not dating (I was burnout) they live 100km away and come to my city 2x week to work onsite. They have proposed a 2nd date on a weekday (I assume because is a day they are in my city) but do you think it's a bad sign they haven't proposed a weekend date? or am I overthinking

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Overthinking

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Good to be cautious. I would do a bigger search and see whether this person is who they say they are, and figure out whether they have a family that you don’t know about on their side of town

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Not try to be evil advocate here… make sure you are not just his another bea in another city. Ppl who is traveling to other city for dating are odds and not sustainable

Just remain single.

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