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I’m 26 weeks pregnant and trying to figure out my leave. I live in NJ and work at PwC, any fishes know the policy for NJ and PwC? The leave center has not been much help and I want to plan NOW not like 60 days before. I was told NJ gets two weeks before due date and PwC gives you two weeks as well.
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On the flip side, my very best friend seems to sensor a lot of her postpartum struggles, and I'm sad she doesn't feel like she can be open about it (though I feel like she's not even honest with herself about it). For example, she'll say things like "I cut my caffeine and baby's slept through the night the past 3 nights!" But then later on she'll let slip that baby woke up 4 times the night before. I worry she is too harsh on herself and if things aren't hunky dory she views it as failing (which is totally not true).
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I so wish I had a friend like you. I love my friends very much, but none of my close friends have kids so they don’t really understand
Be that person for them when they do have kids. I didn't have anyone either which is why I make a point of it now. The friend that takes me up on it has said things like, I didn't know how hard this was, I should have been there for you more.
There's just no way to fully comprehend unless you've been through it. And even then, everyone's baby struggle is so different.