I hope you all have a person you feel comfortable texting at 3am while you're up with baby for any random thoughts, venting, or just catching up.

I have a friend who I told to feel free to text me whenever, because I know how lonely the middle of the night can be. She doesn't do it often, maybe one every few weeks, but I'll wake up to a wall of texts from her full of the real life she's dealing with. And it makes me happy that she feels comfortable enough to do so.

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On the flip side, my very best friend seems to sensor a lot of her postpartum struggles, and I'm sad she doesn't feel like she can be open about it (though I feel like she's not even honest with herself about it). For example, she'll say things like "I cut my caffeine and baby's slept through the night the past 3 nights!" But then later on she'll let slip that baby woke up 4 times the night before. I worry she is too harsh on herself and if things aren't hunky dory she views it as failing (which is totally not true).

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I so wish I had a friend like you. I love my friends very much, but none of my close friends have kids so they don’t really understand

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Be that person for them when they do have kids. I didn't have anyone either which is why I make a point of it now. The friend that takes me up on it has said things like, I didn't know how hard this was, I should have been there for you more.

There's just no way to fully comprehend unless you've been through it. And even then, everyone's baby struggle is so different.

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