Pregnant with my second and I have no will to work. I use to be passionate about my work, but now I m forcing myself to complete the bare minimum tasks needed from me. Not taking any proactive assignments.

Has anyone else felt similar during pregnancy or postpartum?

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Yes definitely during my second pregnancy this year! You have to remind yourself all forward progress is progress whether it’s at 30mph or 100. It’s ok to actually just do your job.

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I feel this way now, 13 weeks and I've been feeling this way since 6 weeks. It's so defeating to want to do a lot but be unable for what seems like no reason. It's the only thing that's blindsided me about pregnancy (this is my first) and it seems like the one symptom people don't understand. I try to remind myself I'm doing the best I can at this time and take it one day at a time.

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This is me! I’ve been feeling this way since about 7w. I have zero energy/motivation. I’m at 20w now and hasn’t gotten any better. I don’t remember it being this way last time around.

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My lead is now micromanaging my work since probably i wasn't delivering optimally in last couple of weeks. Its not like any of the deliverables were late, i just responded by evening instead if morning time to someone or my lead picked it up if i took a couple of hours before picking a task.

Is this usual or expected behaviour or she is being a control freak.

This means more work and more frustration.

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