I just had to PIP someone for the first time, and I think I’m more stressed about it than they are. I remember being the struggling junior who needed a break, so putting someone on a formal path to exit feels like I’m betraying my younger self. Does it ever get easier to deliver bad news without losing sleep over it?

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You threatened someone’s job and made this about you? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If you know they just need a break like you did, why not meet them half way, and try support them?

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This would be funny if wasn’t so on point.

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Before a PIP is ever introduced, the question should be: did this person receive the support they needed to succeed? That includes clear expectations, proper training, and consistent coaching. Without that foundation, a PIP risks setting someone up for failure rather than improvement.

At its best, a PIP should be a structured opportunity for growth, not a signal of exit. It should create clarity, rebuild alignment, and give the individual a fair path to improve.

Using a PIP as an exit strategy without genuine effort undermines trust and reflects more on leadership than the individual. We are all human, and strong organizations lead with accountability, but also with fairness and intention.

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A PIP is always a tool for structured dismissal. You can’t dress it up as anything else.

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Giving a PIP is no bad thing , I use them when I see someone with talent but no drive ! Set it out in 3 stages and what you want to see achieved in each stage.. then support them to get there .after 3months you either have a staff member where they need to be and all is well or a staff member that does not deserve to be there ! It is all down to them , don’t be scared of it just remember to have the meeting between stages

You need to go through the NEAT process. 1. Notify them that something is wrong. 2. Explain what is wrong. 3. Assist them in correcting the problem. 4. Give them the time to fix it.

As a people-first IT & Infrastructure leader, I approach every Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) through a servant-leadership lens. Rather than a punitive tool, a PIP becomes a supportive partnership: an opportunity to listen deeply, remove obstacles, and equip the individual with the clarity, coaching, resources, and training they need to succeed.
I co-create measurable 30/60/90-day goals together, schedule weekly check-ins focused on progress and roadblocks, and maintain psychological safety throughout. My role is to serve—clearing barriers so they can thrive. This approach turns potential setbacks into genuine growth, strengthens trust, and consistently delivers higher retention and stronger, more engaged teams.

Wow... That sounds like a bunch of crap.

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>does it ever get easier?
Yes, just hold you soul under water until it stops making noises.

PIP's should never be "paths to exit", they should always be the path to stay. If the individual cannot maintain the conditions of the PIP, then they do not deserve to be there anyway.

PIPs are survivable.

They should managers and executives on PIPs. But that will never happen.

PIP?

I promise they are more stressed than you are. You had to do your job and cover yourself so no shade on you. I don’t work there but if you are posting this I doubt you are conniving vindictive manager. Keep it business let the cards fall where they may.

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