I love my wife, we have 2 kids together, been married almost 10. I have never slept with another person besides for her. We have fun in bed. There are times when I want to try it with someone else (female, not a man), but feel it would be fun and a new experience. I love eating Frosted Flakes but also want to try Apple Jacks, you know for the experience. Thoughts? Does this make me a bad person for having these thoughts occasionally?

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Having the thoughts? No. But if you act on it, you will permanently destroy your family. Not sure if “Apple Jacks” are worth losing everything.

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Agreed! Thoughts are harmless, action/behavior can be detrimental. Is your fantasy worth the risk?

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Having the thoughts aren't a problem, but if you were to act on them it would cross a major line and be the cause of much trouble. Which I'm sure you realize. Enjoy your Frosted Flakes, as Tony the Tiger says, they're great!

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I don't know why I find this so funny, but thanks.

Yes. Please don’t do that. It will break her and the family you created.

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How about trying role playing instead?

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