I’m a female who lives with my SO. We’ve been dating for years and we fight a lot so it’s possible a breakup is near. Do you think it would be difficult to date while living with my ex as roommates in a 2br/2ba? We have a lease that’s not even halfway done. In other words, would a man be uninterested in a woman who’s living with her ex (but of course being appropriate after the breakup)?

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Sublet or break the lease. Not healthy for you both to be there - can also find a roommate for the second room.

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To be honest - I would be uncomfortable

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I would feel that way too if it was the other way around.

Would be Very uncomfortable to date knowing you live with ex. Hard to trust people until you know them. Would advise find a replacement I take over your half of the lease and get out if you wanna meet other people

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Yea makes sense

I would say break the lease if you have to start dating right away or hold off on dating until the lease is up

I would be uncomfortable (male fish here). Definitely try to find a replacement to take your lease. That isn't a healthy situation.

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